yes that was one lol it was just funni how u said it but yes thats one
you shouldnt compare yourself to girls on porn or anyone else for that matter, considering everyone one is different. and yes you probably experienced an orgasm. if you and your boyfriend continue having foreplay, you will begin to know with your body, if you are having an orgasm or just cumming, because an orgasm feels a lot better.
Yes, you have learned the techinique of female ejaculation.. I have just learned myself and the only way I can do it is if my husband fingers me, and if he hits that spot just right, I can gush..... It does feel good.....
You can have an orgasm with out squirting. I can't tell you exactly if you were having one or not but from what you are describing, I would say you probably were having one.