Why do I feel sick for a few days after sex?

[TheeOne]

Alright, I'm fourteen and I have had sex twice and both times the next day and a few days after that I feel sick to my stomach and I cant eat for those days and i feel like throwing up if I smell certain things like I had sex with this guy who had fruity gum in his mouth and then we had sex and the next day I got a wiff of peaches and it made me gag? Do you think me being drunk could have anything to do with it? I just dont understand because I though hangovers only lasted a couple of hours and if you got good rest and a lot of fluids you should be fine right? Help?!

[Raskal321]

I have had sex with this guy and now his my bf but we had sex for a long time that the next day i felt like throwing up I didn't feel like eatting and I just can't stop touching my stomach because it hurts all lot I feel like throwing up why is that ?

[Raskal321]

Srry bout my message but idk why is ther number and the other signs

[grendslori]

keep us posted! :)

[TheeOne]

Very true.
And I guess that would be a decision for him to make. But I will be updating in a few weeks to let you know if I am Pregnant or not because if I am I'm gonna need some advice.
Thanks again for your help it really means a lot.
-Kayla

[grendslori]

yes you would have the long commitment, but you will also be connected to this man because he is the father of your child. he would have equal rights to see the child which means he has now beccome a part of your life, whether you happen to like it or not. :(

[TheeOne]

And I think it would be just myself but a life long commitment to a child not him as well..

[TheeOne]

Thank you very much for your help(:
It means a lot.

[grendslori]

One other thing....I hope for your sake you aren't pregnant. That one night stand being with a stranger may have just given the two of you an eighteen year commitment!

[grendslori]

To answer your question about the drinking. Chances are the drinking had nothing to do with it. When I first read your post, the first thing that came to mind for me was that you were feeling guilty over what happened and as I read your second post, you pretty much validated my thinking. Drinking and getting drunk to the point of a hangover isn't going to allow you to feel better after a bit of rest if you drink plenty of fluids. First off you can actually end up dehydrated from drinking. At your age, drinking can be dangerous. Also if you continue to drink, you can end up destroying your heart muscle and end up with something called: Alcoholic Cardiomyopathy. A lot of people, especially young people don't know this can happen, it's something you may want to consider when you decide to drink. take care

[TheeOne]

Ohh my gosh! Thank you soo much. And this all completely makes sense. It was just a one night hook up I had just met him but I do regret it because of that and because I think I'm pregnant and it was such a huge mistake and yes i do feel used. Butt thank you soo much you really really helped!(:
Could you help with my other question??

[dlr2007]

I used to have the same thing- I had sex with a guy who wore a leather jacket and used this orangy aftershave or something- for years, the smell of leather or that orangy smell made me sick. Looking back, I think it was because I didn't feel right about what happened. I felt used and kind of ashamed and even though part of me hung onto wanting to be with that guy for a long time, deep down I guess I knew it wasn't good for me.
  I'm wondering if that's happening to you. You mentioned that you were drinking when you had sex- was this something planned, as in a serious relationship leading to sex, or kind of a more casual hookup? Either way, do you regret it? If it was a hookup without commitment, do you feel used by the guy? Sorry for all the questions- but maybe it can help you figure this out.
  Of course, it could be something as simple as you got really drunk and any smell that reminds you of that night makes you wanna puke. For example, I drank melonballs one night when I was about 15- they were made with pineapple juice, vodka and Madori, this melon flavored liquer. It was a bad night- I got absolutely wasted and threw up on my bf's parents couch and made a big @ss outta myself. From then on, the scent of Madori or pineapple juice would make my stomache turn over.
  Either way, it doesn't sound like this is a particularly happy memory for you. Maybe the guy is just not somebody you are meant to be with- or, if you really like the guy, maybe you should skip the booze next time and see if that makes for a better experience. You're smart to be noticing this and thinking it through- I know you'll figure it out. And there's nothing wrong with just not having sex again for a while :) . Good luck.