ir this normal?

[jasperflick]

my 16 year old girlfriend has dated 1 of her cousins, and has passionatly kissed another of her cousens, she kisses her 29 year old brother twice on the cheek then once on the lips before leaving him. her dad made a joke about her vagina being wet when shes performing sexually,and she kisses her lesbian cousin on the lips. also her 4 year old nephew asked 2 see her underwear, so she opened her legs and lifted her skirt for him 2 c, then her mom and sister laughed.

[penswriter]

that is really not normal. and could be considered child abuse with the 4 year old.

there's a difference between being open minded and incest/ludeness and pervesrion...which is what she and her family sounds like. if it bothers you...i'd suggest finding a new g/f....and quick.

[Amie635]

Different people view different things as normal. If they didn't think that was normal behaviour they wouldn't display it in front of you. I know cousins who have dated, even got married. I guess her family are just really open minded and honest with each other which could be a good thing. Maybe its a culture thing? Maybe she has grown up with a very close tight nit family

[quest222]

wow, your girlfriend and her family seem to be very open minded about everything. But on the kissing part, it seems to go a little too far.