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13 & pregnant
Whats best for me to do i need some support from others, im 8 weeks 3 days
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just because you are 13 doesn't mean you cant raise your baby tell your parents about your baby and let them know that you were forced sweety just cause your 13 doesn't mean you cant raise a baby or that your not mature you are mature because your on here asking for help and age aint nothing but a number there is lots of women and man out there that are 18 and older and they are extremely immature so dont listen to anybody saying your imature there imature for calling you that just keep your head up and pray just remember that that baby is a part of you your parents could help you rasie it if they want to or you can do an open adoption that way you can atlease see your baby and be a part of its life and also you should report the guy even if he is your age but if he is over 13 you should seriously report him before he does the samething to another girl keep your head up and if you need to talk you can inbox me
Why don't you want to report him?? I don't want to pressure you or make you feel bad but can't you understand that maybe you are not the only one he did it with and maybe he could have done it to other girls as well?? Can't you understand that you can be saving or helping other girls too by reporting the person that forced you?? All i see you doing is thanking people for the support but i don't see anything about you wanting to report him. I have a 13 yr old sister and just by thinking that this could happen to her it brings tears to my eyes honestly. I hope you make the best decision for you and your baby since you are really young and could even bring difficulties on your labor and your baby i honestly hope to god it goes well with you and your baby but girl REPORT him!!!!!!!!! There's no doubt of wanting to or not!
Honey, I'm not sure if you can get a 'scan' at 8 weeks at a clinic on your own without a parent. I'm not sure it really works that way. You have to drive you to a clinic? You have identification? In my state, minors need a guardian to sign off on medical care. Scans (are you referring to an ultrasound?) are an expensive procedure. And I know that in my area, they aren't given just when you ask for them. A doctor orders that and I had ONE my entire first pregnancy and two my second.
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Anyway, I wouldn't wait. You need someone to help you navigating even just the prenatal care.
good luck
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Anyway, I wouldn't wait. You need someone to help you navigating even just the prenatal care.
good luck
I do encourage you to talk to your parents. Your last sentence of your post above this one really says a lot.
good luck!
good luck!
Thank you very much all^^^
My desicion is made now tho and i dont feel i could ever give my baby to another family or terminate my baby, he/she is my resposibility and part of me now and everyday since i found out i was pregnant ive become more attatched to my baby! i just want to do best for my child and not give him/her a bad upbringing :(
My desicion is made now tho and i dont feel i could ever give my baby to another family or terminate my baby, he/she is my resposibility and part of me now and everyday since i found out i was pregnant ive become more attatched to my baby! i just want to do best for my child and not give him/her a bad upbringing :(
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