ADVICE

[TeenMom_16]

I Have A little Sister  She Is 14  And Alot Of Her Friends Are Pregnant And I'm Pregnant To So Has A lot of People Around Her Pregnant one Day She Told Me She Has Thoughts Of Getting Pregnant Too I Was Shocked When She Told Me She Felt This Way I Need Some Advice On What I Should Tell Her ????

[nonishy]

You need to let her know that sometimes, most the time, the guy leaves and your left all alone...it may not happen right away, but it happens, very few will stick around...Some of these guys say they love you but then you find out later all they wanted to do was get into your pants.
You need to know if she is sexually active, if so she needs to be put on birth control and given condoms.
Put it this way, how will a 14yr support a baby? If she answers her bf will help...ask her what she will do when he doesnt?
How will she get a job? Finish school? Pay for baby stuff? Support herself and a baby?
Some of these teens end up homeless because the parents kick them out, other parents help them. You never know the outcome.
And what part of your story can you contribute to her not getting pregnant at a young age. A lot of mothers don't regret their baby, but they re great the timing... they regret not waiting. They re great not being able to finish school.  All that... it's not fun, it's not like playing dress up with a baby doll. It is hard work, it take patience,  understanding, and a life changer.

[pregomegos]

If i was you let her see how it is being a mom and have her help you with the baby for a week that means at night and not going out with friends cause she playing a role of a teen mom n then talk to her after the week and ask gow it felt girls never really understand till they live it

[remar]

It makes sense that she wants to get pregnant because  her big sister is pregnant and so are some of her friends. It can be fun for a 14 year old girl to be pregnant because she gets lots of attention. The reality is that the baby will come and things will be completely different. It is the hardest job any girl or woman will have in their life. Babies require every minute of your attention. The cry, they may only sleep for an hour or two at a time. They need to be fed, bathed, changed. They require so much money. You can lose friends, not be able to finish school, the boyfriend can leave any time he wants and this happens most of the time. Please tell your little sister all of these things because they are true facts. I would also recommend you take her to a clinic and get her on birth control. Not the pill because she can stop that at any time. Either the shot or the implant. The shot she will need every 3 months. The implant lasts much longer. You sister is so very young and it would be a shame for her to have a baby right now. She has her whole life in front of her to do anything she wants. If she has a baby the chances of her doing any of those things goes way down. You're a wonderful big sister for worrying about your little sister. I had my daughter young too, I was also married and I still am after 37 years. I have 2 younger sisters and they saw how hard it was on me and my husband to have a baby so young. They both waited. My youngest sister waited until she was 32 and married to have her son. Yes, I did set both of them down and had the talk with them about birth control when they were young. They took my advice and both got on it.

[Kj10314]

Tell Her The Stuff You Go Threw W. Sex , Having A Boyfriend , & Being Pregnant At A Young Age . Having To Go Back To School , & Stuff Like That . Don't Scare Her Just Make Her Understand She Not Ready !