COULD I BE PREGNANT?

[kalindaa]

Hi the names Aurelia and I'm 15...Ok so on March 4 I lost my virginity nd he pulled out nd 5 days later I got my period then we had sex again on March 29 and he ejaculated in me and then we had sex again on April 11 and he ejaculated inside me again...All 3 times it was unprotected....So my period was due April 10, can u get pregnant if u have unprotected sex a day after u suppose to get ur period? Anyways it didn't come nd then on the 20 it came but my friends were saying u should still take a test to make sure cause it can't always be ur period it can just be spotting...nd they kept telling me stuff they read on the internet nd showing me true stories of girls....Nd they were saying u can be pregnant nd get ur period....So last week or the week before I took a test nd it came out negative then again my friends were saying u can still be pregnant nd the test come out negative, so they said I should go to doctor...What should I do? Or what u ppl think? --Oh nd the guy I was wit we haven't talked since the last time we smashed nd that pisses me off :(

[kalindaa]

Thanks for the advice and I did go to the doctor and im not pregnant or have anything im lucky. ...  

[sweetpea03]

Having a baby will not keep this guy around, if that is what you are thinking. Having a baby is a major life change and even with couples who both plan to have a baby, a number of them still break up and the mother will then have to be a single parent. I would not call this guy, because he obviously is not interested. If he was interested, he would contact you, but he only used you for sex. Try to focus on school and graduate high school. Make a doctor's appointment to test for pregnancy again and also to get on some form of birth control. Being a teen mom is not easy at all, especially at your age. You really need to think about your future and be responsible about it now. Don't continue having unprotected sex, or you'll end up pregnant and/or with a STD. If you really love children, then wait to have them, so you can give them a better life later than you ever could now.  

[Clysta]

If he's 18 then depending on where you live he can be charged for stationary rape, whether you're consenting or not. Your parents can press charges on him if they feel the need to. I hate to tell you, but he's probably using you for sex. Is there a reason why you want to be pregnant? You're 15, you're still a child yourself. How do you expect to care for one? Do you have a job, do you live alone? Do you have a car and means to get to doctors? Do you have a completed education? I assume no on all accounts. I'm also willing to bet this guy won't stick around long. Most don't. Will your parents let you stay in their house if you get pregnant? Technically they don't have to pay or provide any care or help in the least. You seem to be very.....inexperienced and unknowledgeable when it comes to certain ways in the world. Children aren't just toys that you can play with. They're expensive and time consuming. You need to see a doctor and have blood work done to determine pregnancy. Just because you have sex a few times doesn't mean you're going to wind up pregnant. You have to be ovulating to get pregnant. I strongly encourage you to take more responsible actions before engaging in things you're not prepared for. You don't want to be a struggling teenage mother, or end up with some STD for the rest of your life. If you don't care enough to protect your own health, no one else will either.

[kalindaa]

Yeah I know and the guy is 18 but I do like him .we haven't talked since last time we smashed should I txt him cause I really want to talk to him.....but anyways I took the test at school during lunch time and yeah I took it 2 weeks after I had sex, I last had sex on the 11 of april nd took it on the 27 so that's two weeks right? In the morning well I took it in mid afternoon lunch time. So if it comes out negative I'm definately not prego? But it may sound weird but I want to be prego but I know I'm young nd everything... Yeah iknow birth control...if it comes out negative how is it if I had unprotected sex twice nd he cummed inside nd I not end up prego?

[sweetpea03]

I'm sorry to hear you are going through this. This is one of those lessons to learn about waiting to have sex, to make sure the guy really wants to be with you and not just there to get his jollies. When did you take the home pregnancy test? You have to take the test at least 2 weeks after having sex for the test to be accurate. It's also a good idea to take the test first thing in the morning, since that is when your urine is the most concentrated. I would take one more home pregnancy test tomorrow morning and if it's negative, you are not pregnant. Also, you may want to start looking into birth control options. It is never safe to have unprotected sex, both for the chance of pregnancy and also because of STDs/STIs. Good luck.