HELP!!! i need help

[lea2394]

okay, so like Me and my boyfriend were messing around and pre-*** dripped from my booty cheeck to his cover, i told him to get some tissue from the bathroom, i cleaned it off my butt and the cover, then i switched the tissue and cleaned my vagina with the clean side of the tissue, after that he fingered me. Can i get pregnant? and i'm a virgin. After that i told him to put a condom on, when he did he just teased my vagina, he penetrated but not all the way at all. and i'm still a virgin, my cherry isn't pop. Can i still get pregnant?

[sweetpea03]

Well I am just going off of what you wrote, "he penetrated but not all the way" is what you wrote, so that would mean you had sex. It's very unlikely to get pregnant by getting a tiny amount of pre-*** wiped on you from a tissue. I really doubt you'd get pregnant that way, so try to relax. Sperm can live up to a couple hours outside the body in the air(doesn't die right away), but if it was dry, then the sperm is dead. Messy around/having sex should not be this stressful, so if you don't feel ready to engage in these kinds of activities, then hold off until you feel ready. There is nothing wrong with waiting(I waited until I was 20) and letting your boyfriend know your boundaries of what you are and are not willing to do. For now though, you just need to relax and wait for your period to come.  

[MrsPincince]

If he didn't ejaculate in you then your chances for pregnancy are slim.  Once sperm hits the air it dies. Sperm needs a moisture to stay alive. You said you used the clean side of the tissue to wipe yourself so you should be ok. If you are really concerned wait and see if you miss your next period. If you do, take a test. If you don't miss it and it comes, take it as a lesson learned. If you are really concerned about getting pregnant, you should go on some sort of birth control. I do have to applaud you for making him wear a condom. (makes sure he does EVERY TIME) From the questions you are asking in your post it doesn't seem like you're ready for sex. well lemme say that in a different way you may be ready physically but your knowledge on the subject is little. I agree with Sweetpea regarding you get yourself a lil more educated on sex. The MedHelp website is an EXCELLENT source of information. I say stick around and research.BTW not all women's Hymen ("cherry") get popped when they have intercourse. "when you know better you do better"- Ms. Maya Angelou

[lea2394]

like he said he didn't penetrate me, like he just teased me, but fingered me at the most. because i whiped my vagina with the same tissue i whiped his pre-*** with, can i still get pregnant? like it didn't go in me. and when he was teasing my vagina with his penis he wore a condom

[sweetpea03]

If your boyfriend penetrated you, then you are no longer a virgin. The only way to get pregnant would be if semen touched/came into contact with your vagina. If that did not happen, then you are not pregnant and don't need to worry. I'd suggest that you do some research on pregnancy and sex ed, just so you can feel more confident about what is going on next time. And always use a condom to avoid pregnancy and STDs.