Aa
im freaking out!
Sooo i started too spott 2 weeks before my period. but it was light and pinkish and not heavy. none even got on my underwear and i didnt wear a pad or a liner or tampon it lasted for not even one day. more like 8 hours or litttle more. anyways me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex lately cause we both dont have jobs and think its weird asking for condoms. so we use the "Pull out methhod" well idk. im suppose to get my period on the 3rd or 4th of august. could i be pregnant? could that be implantatio bleeding? cause i know it wasnt my cherry being popped since i didnt have sex like 2 days before i spotted and he already popped it. :/ please please help me!!!
Clysta is right love.
I do want to point one thing out though. It's not all that common, but implantation can happen as early as 5 days after you ovulate. With all the dates, it is very possible that you could be pregnant. Just wanted to point it out. I normally have a 34-36 day cycle. Well, looks like this cycle is going to be a 28 day one. Cycle lengths can change without warning meaning Ovulation date changes as well.
I do want to point one thing out though. It's not all that common, but implantation can happen as early as 5 days after you ovulate. With all the dates, it is very possible that you could be pregnant. Just wanted to point it out. I normally have a 34-36 day cycle. Well, looks like this cycle is going to be a 28 day one. Cycle lengths can change without warning meaning Ovulation date changes as well.
Ok. If your cycles usually start at the beginning of the month, you don't have a 28 day cycle. Yours sounds more like a 30-33 day cycle. The one that you had from the 3rd to 7/8th. Was it different than normal in any way, and were you having sex before then as well. Based on the dates you had sex, you're doing it at the perfect time for pregnancy to occur.
A female will ovulate 2 weeks before her next cycle is due. On someone with a 30+ day cycle, this is usually day 16 of her cycle and you adjust it according to your own length. Yours would have fallen on the days you had sex. And seeing as you didn't use protection (as stated "pulling out" is worthless and offers no protection) this increases your odds. It also doesn't matter if you don't have sex on your ovulation day, as a female is fertile for 5 days leading up to ovulation and sperm can last 7 days in perfect conditions. There's nothing you can do but wait for now.
As to what the spotting is, it's too early for implantation if it happened on the 21st. Likely due to irritation. The 25th though, is more difficult to say. Wait a week and take a pregnancy test with first morning urine.
It's also possible that you just have some sort of infection, seeing as you have blood and pain when you urinate. You can buy OTC tests to check for things like a UTI and whatnot. If that is what you have, it needs to be treated before it gets worse. I had one that mutated into a Kidney Infection and was hospitalized.
All of this aside, like I was saying earlier. You decided that you wanted to be grown up and have sex. This means you need to be responsible about it and take proper measures to prevent disease and pregnancy until you're ready. You either need to come to terms with the fact that you WILL end up pregnant if you continue this, or suck it up and ask your parents for help. Either way, they'll find out one day when you're telling them you're pregnant or just asking for protection.
A female will ovulate 2 weeks before her next cycle is due. On someone with a 30+ day cycle, this is usually day 16 of her cycle and you adjust it according to your own length. Yours would have fallen on the days you had sex. And seeing as you didn't use protection (as stated "pulling out" is worthless and offers no protection) this increases your odds. It also doesn't matter if you don't have sex on your ovulation day, as a female is fertile for 5 days leading up to ovulation and sperm can last 7 days in perfect conditions. There's nothing you can do but wait for now.
As to what the spotting is, it's too early for implantation if it happened on the 21st. Likely due to irritation. The 25th though, is more difficult to say. Wait a week and take a pregnancy test with first morning urine.
It's also possible that you just have some sort of infection, seeing as you have blood and pain when you urinate. You can buy OTC tests to check for things like a UTI and whatnot. If that is what you have, it needs to be treated before it gets worse. I had one that mutated into a Kidney Infection and was hospitalized.
All of this aside, like I was saying earlier. You decided that you wanted to be grown up and have sex. This means you need to be responsible about it and take proper measures to prevent disease and pregnancy until you're ready. You either need to come to terms with the fact that you WILL end up pregnant if you continue this, or suck it up and ask your parents for help. Either way, they'll find out one day when you're telling them you're pregnant or just asking for protection.
well may june july i had my periods all starting in the begining of the month. not exatly sure. between the 1st and the 4th. usually i have my periods 28 days or alittle longer apart. sometimes ide start on the 1st one month the next the 3rd so not too far apart. and i have my period for 5 days ever since i first started my period at 14 and now im 17. i had my period this month from the 3rd to the 7th. on july 7th i stopped later that night/ early morning on the 8th. on the 9th i had sex and pretty much had sex every night till like the 20th. the 20th was the last night i had sex. and on the 21st i spotted for 8 or more hours. it was light and not as red. more of a light pink and had some cramps bit they werent just in my stomach. like when i went pee it hurt. not like a burning either. more of a cramp. but it only hurted after i sarted to pee a little. and not a cramp in my stomach but a cramp like down there. like just a ince or so under my bellybutton. then yesterday i spotted again for like maybe 3 hours. it was a pinkish/ light brown but more pink. with same cramos when i went pee not as bad as the first time. im suppose to get my period on either august 3rd or 4th. :/
We need more information. What are the exact dates of your last 3 cycles (when did they start/end and how long are they), what is the cycle length between them and when did you have sex. You seem...uninformed about the female body, and you WILL get pregnant if you decide to continue engaging in sex without educating yourself on what you're doing first.
its only been like 4 days since i had sex. i had sex like everyday since i got off my last period till 4 days ago...
I'm sure they would prefer you asking for condoms rather than telling them you're pregnant. If it's been 2 weeks since you had sex, take a pregnancy test with first morning urine.
thanks so much. and we have money well our parents we just think its awckward to ask them
I agree with sweetpea. I also want to mention, if you don't have money for condoms (which are amazingly cheap) you should reconsider sex. Pulling out is worthless, and a child costs 100x more than a condom ever will.
It is possible that you might be pregnant. The "pull-out method" is not a form of birth control and does not protect you against pregnancy. You'll have to wait until your period is due and then take a home pregnancy test. You can take a home pregnancy test 2 weeks after having sex and most likely get an accurate result(though for some it may give a false negative), so it is up to you if you would want to take the test sooner or later. Try not to stress yourself about it if you decide to wait for your period to come, as stress can easily cause your period to be late, which would only lead to more stress. If you are pregnant, then you'll need to start thinking about what you are going to do and talk to your bf about your options. If you are not pregnant, then you can use this as your learning lesson to be much more careful. Always use protection from start to finish. You can get free condoms at many medical clinics and other areas, which you can look up online. Take care.
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