Is it possible to get pregnant via these ways?

[Melsss]

Me and my boyfriend have both come to the conclusion that we would only have sex later in our relationship (very later!) so basically for that reason, we 'fool around'. I have let him finger me numerous times and we make sure he washes his hands and so on, and he doesn't touch himself with the same hands that he's used on me. I also tell him to keep his fingernails short and clean and trimmed.

However, when we fool around, I do masturbate for him and he does ejaculate. This is not done at the same time though. He does not finger me when I masturbate for him. I also make sure my vagina is nowhere near his penis during the process. We clean up afterwards but that's not my main concern.

Another way for me to masturbate for him is by putting his penis at my clitoris and doing the usual masturbation technique, is it possible for me to get pregnant if his penis is at my clitoris but he does not ejaculate? Whenever we do the above, he makes sure he doesn't ejaculate. I'm concerned because everytime we do this sort of thing, I think his precum is around the area of my clitoris because it's wet at the area. Would it travel down into my vaginaI opening and make me pregnant? I always wipe it off with my arm though. I am positive that he does not ejaculate. Would the precum at the location of my clitoris make me pregnant in the way that I have said? I know it's not very far from my vaginal opening, but should I be worried?

This has bothered me for ages, because I basically get paranoid after every time we do this. I just want to do this sort of thing without worrying about whether I'm pregnant or not. I'm due on my period today, tommorow or the day after and I have been experiencing my period pains but not any pregnancy symptoms (morning sickness etc.) I have been researching and I have found that getting pregnant from fingering is very highly unlikely and that in order for a woman to get pregnant, the semen has to be entered inside her vagina at a rate which can be explained as almost a 'gun shot'.

Can someone please provide me with some advice? What can I do to make this sort of thing safer and should I be worried about being pregnant? Am I playing with fire? The thought of being pregnant scares me tremendously! Advice would be highly appreciated by me. Thank you.

[Melsss]

Thanks :-)

[Clysta]

Technically a female doesn't need penetration for her to become pregnant. If any fluids are present they can mix, and help the sperm travel into and to an egg. Is it likely? No. Can it happen? Yes. There are many more safe options that can be done that do not run a risk. Often activites like that can lead to more in the moment. IF you both enjoy what he does, make him use a condom before he touches you.

[Melsss]

Thanks alot for your advice :) So you reckon I'm not prego? Would my period maybe be delayed a bit because of all my worrying regarding this? So I shouldn't freak out if it doesn't arrive IMMEDIATELY.

[superchoc]

If you are not ready for a child (considering you are not yet ready to have full intercourse) be very careful as in the heat of the moment you may ave unprotected sex. To make it safer, start taking a pill and he should use a condom. You can not get pregnant if he ejaculates outside of your vagina but if he rubs you afterwards and slips in, you may. Although chances are very slim, it still may happen. If you are not ready, do not take chances, take precautions.x