Late Period

[guest515]

Hi, me and my partner had sex four times. We used a condom and she is "states" shes on birth control. The condom never broke and she says she takes the pill on time. A month later she says that shes late, if I'm correct shes about 4 days late. As far as i know she takes medicine for her blood pressure and maybe more. On top of that I think she has home problems. My guess is shes stressed out. She says she a little worried about it but also thinks shes fine. Told her to take a test but it seems like she refuses. If anyone can give me some input it would be much appreciated. Thanks.

[guest515]

no we're not together nor do i want to be. I am honestly hoping for her to get back with her ex so she will be off my hands, and I'm not to worried about STDs considering i always used protection.

[sweetpea03]

Are you planning on staying with her? if you are, you may want to get tested for STDs, because who knows what her ex might have and she can pass that on to you. Also, if you are staying with her, you both need to have a long talk about what you will do if she is pregnant and about trust issues, since she cheated.

[guest515]

kinda. really I've just been stressing to her to take a test, but its like talking to the wall. I have done my research, and yeah its unlikely for me, but just the fact that she could get pregnant in the same time frame we had sex just makes me uneasy. neither her or her ex are being responsible at all which is very frustrating.

[Clysta]

If she were to get pregnant, I'm almost 100% sure it wouldn't be your child's, but the ex's in this case. Have you sat down and talked about what is going to happen if she is pregnant?

[guest515]

I recently gained knowledge that she has slept with an ex boyfriend and the condom broke, which just makes the plot thicken because say if she would get pregnant we wouldnt know whos it was. I know his chances are much greater but its such a irresponsible action.

[sweetpea03]

The chance of pregnancy is very low and she most likely is late because of stress or other factors. Though if she does not get her period in the next week, I would bring her a pregnancy test to use so that you can both know for sure.

[cutegirl20]

hi
lilly0 is right.. the chances of being pregnant are very less coz there was no contraceptive failure.. her body must be stressed.. the human body cycles are not perfect..sometimes it might be late due to some illness or other reason than pregnancy.. so there's no need to worry.. i myself was late this time by 3days but after some time it eventually came.... ask her to relax her stressing out will delay it further... take care..

[lilly0]

Hi

I'm sure she's just stressed out as if the condom did not brake and she's on birth control there is almost NO chance of her being pregnant so taking a test will be a waste of time!! Tell her to relax and not to stress as she's FINE

Have a wonderfull day