What should I do?

[Waddao]

People here, what should I do? I am 13 this year and 14 Next year. I haven't had my period in a year and I am a Virgin. I just could not think of what to do. I decided I want to find a doctor to ask but I dun know who to find and I am too embarrassed and afraid to ask my parents as we are not really close to be honest. The only problem I think I done wrong is I Masturbate I oso dun really know. Is like I put a soft toy for something like up my legs and like rub it?? I dun know if that is masturbate ok. The only reason why I dared to type this thing is because my name and email address or anything is revealed so can someone help me please

[trishahernandez]

im scared too

[AnnieBrooke]

You can't get pregnant unless sperm gets inside your body, and obviously that will not happen from solo masturbation (in other words, if you are masturbating yourself alone and not with some guy's penis very near your vagina).  Not having had a period for a year is not unusual for someone as young as yourself, many girls don't start having periods in the first place until after they are 14.  Next time you go for a checkup with your family doctor, if your periods have still not come on, you could mention that they began and then stopped.  Or, get an appointment with an ob-gyn (doctor who specializes in women's health, called a specialist in obstetrics and gynecology).  That kind of doctor can answer all of your questions and will not be embarrassed or embarrassing.