pregnancy

[katie761]

Hi everyone, im 17 years old and im pretty sure im pregnant, i took 3 pregnancy test and they all came back positive. im really nervous and im already having a few symptoms, i have been very fatigues, my breast hurt and i keep getting sick. The last time i had my period was in April, and i didn't think anything was wrong because i wasn't paying attention to when i was suppose to get it :( i made an appointment for Monday and idk what to think, umm if i am pregnant i want the baby to be healthy and everything, and i wanna find out how far along i am, but if im not next time i know to be more safe. Im not ready for a baby but if im pregnant im going to deal with it and grow up. It just stinks that i let this happen, i have a lot going on with my body and my future plans and i just don't want everything to be messed up

[katie761]

yeah i will deff try to post it to my page :) i cant wait to see your little one.

[RissaRissaRoo]

Awe, I am so excited! You have to post the ultrasound to your page. I will do the same wth mines today! Do not be scared, everything will be okay!

[katie761]

I can't wait to feel my little baby move, I heard that's one of the most amazing times when your pregnant :) I cant wait to see my baby tomorrow on the ultrasound :) it makes me super excited lol, and i am scared a little because i was on ibprofin and stuff

[RissaRissaRoo]

It is normal to be nervous, but it will go away. I know words cannot truly describe the ultimate feeling of becoming a mommy. I am always shocked and estatic everytime I find out that I am pregnant. It is just so joyous!! Wait until you get to feel the baby move, it is amazing.

[katie761]

awe, yeah im going to be 18 when this baby comes, because i turn 18 next month. Im extremely nervous but i am happy. I just found out and im like in shock, i just can't believe theirs a baby inside me lol.

[RissaRissaRoo]

I know it will not be easy. It was hard, but my mom helped me out. I had my first when I was 17 and my second at 18. My mom took my baby to my grandmas and paid her so that I could finish high school. She never saw me as a failure or quitter! I hope everything is okay with your possible baby. I did and am still doing a great job with my children. You just have to push through it. I am here if you ever want or need to talk. I have no problem with helping you the whole way through pregnancy. Things will work itself out though!!

[katie761]

thanks for responding :), i know my life wont be messed up it just that some thing will have to be on hold untill i figure everything out, for example college, im suppose to start next month and idk if i will be able to stay in college and raise a child. and im trying to get a job, so if im a fulltime college student and i work part time, i wont ever see my kid. im just worried. I wanna do everything right, and not end up like everyone else in my family, they all hate their lives, and i dont want my life to be like that. But i go to the doctors today to find everything out, whatever happens, happens! and im just hope that if i am pregnant, everything is fine with the baby and hope for the best  :). My sister is 24 and has 3 kids, she was also a teen mom. She has her first son at 16 and her second son at 18 and just recently had a baby girl last febuary :)) i love her family and we are very blessed to have them all here, and i hope that if i am pregnant, people will feel that way about my baby too :)
thanks again for responding, its nice to talk to someone whos already been through this :).

[RissaRissaRoo]

If you have took that many test, I am pretty sure that you are pregnant. All yo can do is start taking prenatal vitamins and go  the doctor. Everything will not be messed up sweetheart. Everything happens for a reason and I wish for you to still be successful in life. Just because you may or may not be pregnant does not mean that it is the end of your life or future. I am 21 years old and I have a loving fiance with 2 children and 1 on the way. I do not look at my life as being messed up. Heck, I am blessed to be given this opportunity to grow more in my lifetime. Just know that we all face speed bumps in life that we slowly have to drive over. You will be great as a mother and whatever you choose to hold in your future! Best Wishes!