when is the best time?

[honey18]

I dont want to get pregnant but me and my bf is having sex and dont want to use contraceptives. My last period was sept 18-21.  My period is irregular sometimes 2months delayed.  last day of period sept 21 when is the best time to have sex without me getting preggy?

[acline93]

I'm 19 and I'm currently 11 weeks pregnant. PLEASE USE PROTECTION. Just ask yourself "If I get pregnant, do I have a good enough job to raise this child?" And will your baby's father be there for the long haul? I'm 19, and didn't use protection one time, and now I'm having to pay for my irresponsibilty. I had to take a leave from USC just so I could get a better job. Please just stop and think about what you're getting yourself into.

[remar]

You have to know when you ovulate and then not have sex on those days. You can buy ovulation kits over the counter at the pharmacy. But, you have to use them for a few months at least to know what your cycle is. Until then you really should use some sort of birth control to prevent an unplanned pregnancy. There are several things to choose from if you don't want to take the pill. You can go to your local clinic to talk to them about options. Remember that a baby is forever and raising it will be the hardest thing you ever do.

[honey18]

We just dont feel like using one. I would like to know if we use calendar method when would be the best time?

[remar]

Can I ask why you don't want to use any kind of birth control? You will most likely end up pregnant if you don't. Condoms are inexpensive and sometimes free at the clinic.