Hello, My wife was diagnosed with Grave's disease about 4 years ago when our daughter was born (pregnancy induced hypertension they called it), received treatment to her Thyroid, and now is on Synthroid the rest of her life. Since then, she has become incredibly difficult to deal with. She is extremely irritable, blows up at the drop of a hat, and constantly blames me for how miserable she is. Her doctor's tell her that her level's are OK, yet she does not tell them the critical problems she is having in her home. I have tried to explain to her family my experiences with her, but they don't see it because she is able to hide it around them. She has them totally fooled, and they won't listen to me. My family has experienced her mood swings and understands what I am going through, but we are at loss because she won't go to the doctor and get help. She is extremely stubborn and again, blames me for all her issues in life. I have been supportive to no end, but don't know how much longer I can be the whipping post for her mood swings. On top of that, I have two little girls that I brought into the marriage with me that experience the same type of chaos with her moods as I do, only they do not understand because they are kids. Looking back, I lost my wife four years ago and don't know what to do. I promised to be here for her in sickness and in health, but she refuses to get help. I am at a desperate for any advice anyone who is dealing with or has dealt with similar conditions.
Thanks!