Well I went to the doctors I have to go back I'm three weeks to find out for sure whats wrong. But the doctor gave me hope and that's all I really needed.
I think I first started when I was 10. And they where regular until the age 14 where I had gotten pregnant. But sadly I miscarried at 1 almost 2 months, someone hit me in the stomach. I didn't go to the doctors till a week or two later because of an infection I had gotten from the miscarriage. After I lied to the doctors about why I was sick. I was in the hospital for two days. After my periods where irregular but the most I would miss is 2 months and sometimes they where heavy and long and sometimes they where light and short either way it involved cramping and being bloated and yes I also had tender breast too. But recently I've missed 3 months of my period I thought I was pregnant but I wasn't I ended up starting heavy and painful. after, the next two months my period seemed normal lasted your average 7 to 6 days and was light as well. But right after that I have now missed 5 months and I'm bloated, gassy, my hair is thinner, my lower back hurts a lot, and just a couple days ago I started feeling pain in my lower part of my stomach hurts real bad but goes away quick... I've also gotten ulcers twice in the past And I've had nerve damage in both my hands for about a year. So Yea I'm just a mess...:'(
Hello valencia65,
I have several questions I'd like to ask in order to help find a possible cause.
1. At what age did you first have your period?
2. Up until 5 months ago, have your periods always been regular?
3. If not, when was the last time you had a normal period?
4. How long do your periods typically last, when you had them?
5. What flow have your periods had, when you had them?
6. Do you get typical breast tenderness, when you had them?
7. Do you get the typical mood changes, when you had them?
8. Did you have normal growth and development of breasts during puberty?
9. At what age did you begin developing breasts?
10. Any milky discharge coming from nipples?
11. Any headaches?
12. Any visual problems?
13. Symptoms such as fatigue, weight gain, and cold intolerance?
14. Symptoms such as palpitations(feeling "beats", or possibly heart beats from anywhere on your body), nervousness, shaking, and heat intolerance?
15. Symptoms such as acne, deepening of voice, and excessive hairiness on areas that do not normally occur on women(This would include, chest hair, beards, etc.)?
16. Symptoms such as hot flushes, vaginal dryness, sleep problems, fractures due to falling when standing, and decreased sexual desire?
17. During puberty, would you say you had a normal growth spurt?
18. During puberty, did you develop armpit and pubic hair?
19. Have you always, or recently, developed new or worsening stress?
20. Have you had any known chronic(meaning over a long time) illness?
21. Starting from the 5 months ago, were you put on any new medication?
22. Within the last 5 months, any significant change in weight?
23. How has your diet been overall?
24. Do you have any history of exercising excessively?
25. Have you ever had a Dilation and Curettage(D & C) procedure done?
26. Have you ever had an Endometrial Ablation procedure done?
27. Have you ever been diagnosed with Endometritis?
28. Have you ever had a Uterine surgery done?
29. Have you ever used drugs that effect dopamine?(eg. Antihypertensives, Antipsychotics, Opioids, Antidepressants, etc.)
30. Have you ever used any sex hormones?(eg. Androgens, Estrogens, Progestins, etc.)
31. Use of contraceptives within the past year?
32. What is the height of your parents?
33. Any known cases of delayed puberty in parents?
34. Any known genetic disorders in parents?
35. What is your weight and height?
36. Do you have a large or bulging hymen?
37. Is there noticeable mucosa in your vagina?
38. If so, what color is it?
39. If so, what characteristics does it have?(eg. stringy, dry, thin, etc.)
40. Is there balding or hair loss on the sides of your head, right behind eyes?
41. Any noticeable increase in muscle mass?
42. Any enlargement of clitoris?
43. Any secondary sexual deferminization?(eg. decreased breast size, vaginal thinning, drying, and swelling, etc.)
44. Any new or excessive hair growth on fingers and toes, head, and back?
45. Any noticeable skin discolorations?
I have a doctors appointment Wednesday they are doing a pep smear to check if it could be cancer or something. But what ever is wrong with me is still bad..I just wanted to something other to think about rather than cancer or a tumor even menopause.:-( and thank you I really appreciate it.
Have you gone to the doctors? Maybe you have an ectopic pregnancy. Your tummy is bloated sure sounds like you pregnant. You need to visit your Gyno ASAP
Wishing you and ur fiancé the best
Peace
Deb