help me?!

[jackie29]

so me and my bf were messin around one night and i had my underwear on & a tampon in ( at the second to last day of my period). he ended up ejaculating  after he pulled away before ejaculating ( so none was directly shot in my butt) but he got some on the side of my butt, and a slit possibliy of it getting on the top of my butt crack. so we wiped it up right away.   but now a day late for my period ( i counted 28 days to see if i was late, and i was due monday and now is wednesday)  should i be worried?  slit cramping or maybe its just in my head, and im really stressed and scared. can anyone help me in telling me my chances?

[jackie29]

yes, i know bad idea. but i did keep the tampon it then once i got home i took it out & i ask him if he got it in my butt crack and he said no hes pretty sure he didnt.   wouldnt the sperm be obsorbed in the tampon? if any sperm got in my butt crack it would be a very very small amount. wouldnt it be really hard for it to travel all the way down then up the vag through the tampon?  im a nervous wreak, and thank you for your time.

[heavyC]

I agree, it's most likely that your worried about it so much, and that's why you haven't gotten your pd yet; we've all been there and I know how scary it can be.  Try and go on with you days as you normally would and try not to dwell on it.  If what you've said is true and especially if you kept the tampon in, I highly doubt that you're pregnant.  However, it's probably a good idea to have your bf use  a condom so you don't have to go through this every time the two of you want to get close.  You don't say how old you are, but my guess is you're pretty young, and that's all the more reason for you and your bf to be careful about sex.  It's not your responsibility alone, the responsibility belongs to both of you.  Most guys don't like to use them, but too bad.  Just think of the alternative.  Good luck to both of you.  

[jackie29]

so could i be late just because i am stressed, and i have been late before. so i not worry much if their was no vag contact?

[moniquesr]

i dont think you have much to worry about.  i mean of course there always a risk of getting pregnant if  your not using any other type of birth control. the "pull out" method is not a way to prevent pregnancy, i think you should wait a few days and if still no period, take a hpt. good luck!