My 20 y/o son has been seeing doctors for almost a year now with no conclusive diagnosis & now he has fired his psychiatrist for calling him a liar about his most recent symptom, no conscious control of leg muscles, soft tissue numbness bilaterally waist down leaving him w/c bound. PCP also seems to doubt him. As a mother & lpn I had to find out for myself so watched him while sleeping. He has muscle cramps & spasms while asleep similar to what I've seen in others who are paralyzed. If he's lying, he's doing it in his sleep. He had some lightheadedness, migraines & abdominal issues as well as anger problems in high school after having meckel's diverticulitis removed @ 14 y/o. Had passed out possibly hitting head 2-3 times b4 diagnosed with Meckel's. @ 18 he injured right knee in accident, was ill with migraines & fevers most of winter, then passed out hitting back of head suffering complete memory loss which returned slowly over several months. Not all of memory has returned even now. Last Nov. began having rt knee nerve pain radiating down to foot. Orthopedic specialist gave cortisone in knee eventually causing numbness knee down. Then bone pain began, feeling like marrow is boiling, which spread over several weeks to every bone head to toe making concentration difficult. Soft tissue numbness has come & gone & come again several times. Now he complains of SOA following cold symptoms. Cold gone. SOA not. Bone pain continues not well managed with nonnarcotic meds but don't want narcs if can be avoided & dr won't prescribe anyway without firm diagnosis as he is young, white male with depression. Who wouldn't be depressed? Has seen chiropractor, orthopedist, neurologist, ophthomologist for vision disturbance lt eye,& psychiatrist, had multiple tests showing nothing significantly wrong. Even I have doubted him @ times but not now. There must be something organically wrong but cannot get more tests until can get disability d/t cost. Can't get disability d/t no significant diagnosis. Can't get diagnosis without more tests. He can't work or go to school d/t pain, lack of concentration, & w/c confinement. Can't get public assistance without disabling diagnosis. Can't be carried on my insurance unless disabled or in school. (W/c bound but not disabled?!?!) He's thousands of dollars in debt & currently being sued for payment he doesn't have. I can't pay it, either. What can be done? How can we get a diagnosis & treatment needed? How can we get his drs to take him seriously? Just recently heard about POT syndrome. Could this be it? His PCP has never heard of POT syndrome, either, & quite frankly it sounds like the new catch all diagnosis. Need answers soon. Please help if you can. This affects the whole family.