Does anyone have a plan of a vagina that makes it easy to see the uretha , trying to place the catheter is causing a bit a bleeding and some pain.
This is not not normal. Please get a urine culture to evaluate for a bladder infection. If this is present it can easily be treated with antibiotics.
I also had a catheter in for a week after urethra sling surgery, then 2 weeks later my doctor had to stretch my utethra with instruments (it had narrowed after surgery). If person who did your catheter was rough, I'm sure that would do it. I had some discomfort like you described, but mine went away after a couple weeks (remember I had surgery, too).