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I'm 15, I'm 1.65 m tall and I weight 60 kg...I hate my body, it's all wibbly wobbly...
I want to become a skeleton, I don't want muscles, I don't want "the right amount of fat", I just want to be skinny...a skeleton. Please don't tell me that it's not healthy, I don't care. Just tell me how to achieve this result. Thank you.
(Ps. I'm not a depressed girl, I'm alwaya happy. The only thing that gets me down is my body, so please help me :) )
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649848 tn?1534633700
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What a contradiction:

"Still don't try to achieve something you weren't made for"

"There's no need for being extra skinny. Just skinny is enough"

Not everyone is meant to be skinny and even skinny isn't attractive on everyone.

No one should try to achieve something they aren't, whether it be skinny or not...  We are who we are and the body isn't everything.
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Hi!

I also live in Italy. I'm 168 cm tall and I weight 57.4 kg.
I have muscle and a toned body but no one's giving me hard time about it. Some of my classmates even envy my body and make me compliments.
Muscles aren't always boyish! Look at some fitness models who are toned but not too much or at dancers. They are strong and sexy and fierce.

Being a skeleton... That comes naturally. It all depends on your body type. You can lose only so much weight!
I think you should make high intensity workouts to burn fat and eat healthy,with a lot of veggies and fruits in your diet. And don't forget proteins,they are your friends.
Chips,sodas,chocolate,merendine... You should forget that. And no fried food. No focaccia.

Still don't try to achieve something you weren't made for: every body type has its strong and weak points. Work on both but remember that you are you and not some model. And no one has the right to tell you how you have to look to be attractive. There's no need for being extra skinny. Just skinny is enough.

Ps. I have a friend struggling with anorexia and believe me,you don't want to get there. You lose your hair,your skin becomes like rough paper,you can't catch your breath and you want to sleep all the time. There is not one single thing attractive about that. It's just scary.
She will struggle with this all her life.
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649848 tn?1534633700
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If you're "wibbly wobbly, it's not from excessive muscle, because muscle makes you look smooth and toned, not fat and ugly, though I doubt seriously that you look fat and ugly, because you're about the right weight for your height.

Even if you have fat to lose, losing it without toning your muscles will leave you with baggy wrinkly skin... Haliee is right - nothing sexy about that!!  
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That's silly for one to want to be a Skelton that's not sexy at all! Don't you want a nice *** and flat tummy rather then no *** and ribcage? Eat health portion control and lost of exercise!
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Here in Italy? Italians love skinny girls and I'm wibbly wobbly/with excessive muscles so that I look like a fat boy...do you get it now? I just want to lose my fat and this ugly and masculine muscular mas.
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649848 tn?1534633700
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I don't think there's anyone on this forum that will help you become a skeleton.  We're here to help people lose weight in a health manner.  

If I calculated it right, you're about 5'4" and 122 lbs, which is not the least fat.  If your "wibbly wobbly", it sounds like all you need to do is tone your muscles.  

Becoming a skeleton will only leave you with lose, wrinkly skin hanging all over your body... how attractive will that be?
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