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Abortion declined
So since my boyfriend found out I was pregnant he was screaming he wasn't ready and wants me to get an abortion. After arguing for weeks about getting an abortion I had heart-to-heart with him and told him this is my body and not doing that, so if he didn't want to be in his child's life this is chance to get out with a free card and I wouldn't hold it against him. Since that talk he said he wants to keep his baby and has been discussing names and has been planning. So I just wanted to let you ladies know if there's anyone that has been in my shoes and your boyfriend keeps mentioning abortion you're the one that's in control your body and you can say no. If they don't grow up and want to be a father you deserve better and you'll make it on your own own!
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Hi there. Well, abortion IS a good option for some women and they don't regret it one bit. However, it has to be a woman's decision done for her own needs or reasons to be a good option. and you don't want one.
I do think you must consider that your boyfriend does NOT want to be a father. It is very difficult for couples to maneuver through this and the trend is typically that they break up. I don't know if this will happen but it is his right to not act in a father role to a baby. It sure does stink though when that happens. And regardless of his actual physical involvement, I would seek child support from him as that is his duty.
But if you think you are ready for the responsibility of parenthood and are happy to undertake that job, more power to you. good luck hon
I do think you must consider that your boyfriend does NOT want to be a father. It is very difficult for couples to maneuver through this and the trend is typically that they break up. I don't know if this will happen but it is his right to not act in a father role to a baby. It sure does stink though when that happens. And regardless of his actual physical involvement, I would seek child support from him as that is his duty.
But if you think you are ready for the responsibility of parenthood and are happy to undertake that job, more power to you. good luck hon
Good for you!! You won't regret it!
That's good stick to your word I'm happy for you! I don't understanding this guy's they wanna have sex without protection and whenever baby comes they wasn't ready.
So happy for you guys!!! Congrats on starting new family!
Don't know you but I'm proud that you stood your ground:) way to go momma
Congratulations
Go you!!!
Good for you... My husband and I tried for years to have a baby right when we gave up our miracle came. So glad you stepped your foot down and you did not do it. There's people that wish and has the opportunity to get pregnant and don't. Wish you nothing but the best!!
That's awesome. My sons father wanted me to get an abortion at first and I said no and now he loves his son.
Way to stand firm!!
:D
Good for you!!
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