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Boyfriend cheated on me and left me with a baby I'm 10 weeks pregnant

After   my boyfriend cheated on me and took all that I have should I keep this baby
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Keep the baby and put his *** on child support with everything he has!! Lol
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Yes! You still should keep the baby because God gave it to you for a reason. He/She is here because he/she has a purpose for living. Dont let no man control your feelings about whether or not you should keep it, because if he didnt leave you was going to keep it. I think you should keep it. Eventually he will come back in your life to care for his baby. I hope you make the right decision.
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He sounds like one sleazeball of a boyfriend, good riddance to him, but this does not mean you and your lawyer won't have a little talk with him about child support when the time comes.

Keep the baby if you can manage it financially, or possibly consider an open adoption.  I'm pro-choice but it would not be my first choice, even in this sad of a situation.  So many couples are looking for a baby to adopt and there are so few babies.
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Thank you
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Thank you so much I just need some direction in life
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Your welcome love anytime. How far are you now?
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Hey I don't know if my story going to help you but I was living life enjoy my time and I have a good job and then I got pregnant and I live in a country where single mothers I something against the law you're not even allowed to deliver in the hospital if you not married and I was seeing my boyfriend for a few months only I thought of my life is over and I cannot go back to my mom and dad because they not going to except it and death is the punishment for woman get pregnant without being married and of course abortion is not a choice I thought my life is over but the first time I heard my baby heartbeats it was a force came over me or power make me fight for this baby and I trusted God plan I did my best and the rest God take care of it I'm having my baby soon and to be honest with you the love I have you don't want to miss it this baby will make up every thing you did in your life and all the pain will be worth it good luck and if you need to talk I'm always here keep the baby
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Don't punish the child for the transgressions of the father. It's not the baby's fault. If you don't feel you can manage a child on your own, please consider adoption.
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Abortion is a permanent choice for a temporary situation / feeling.  

Not gonna tell my life story because it really doesn't matter.

But you can be mommy & daddy.  Its hard, heck nothing in life that is easy is worth keeping.  But you can do it!! You are a strong woman! Your hurt, feel betrayed . Angry. But there are other options,  adoption?  While this is your choice,  if you choose to abort this pregnancy,  give it a little time. If you don't have you together,  now is the time to do so. Ain't nothing men like more than a strong educated woman with her stuff in line baby or not. So don't think the love bug is dead baby! Lol.

Again this is your choice,  but take a little time to think about it. Either way I wish you the best: -)
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My boyfriend never cheated on me but he did leave me a bounch of times over stupid stuff when i first found out i was pregnant with our second baby were werent together then we got together but kept on fighting we left each other for about two months. I felt like i didnt want my baby boy either but it really isnt the baby fault omce you hear your babys heart beat n see the baby for the first time it will all change your mind. Good luck girl
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During all of this that happened with me and my boyfriend my mother passed away i didnt really want to be with him because all of the stufc he put me threw but i love him and he came back.  I felt like my whole life was over and that i was going to be a single mom. But like the girly said before god made that baby for a reason. Dont stress if u need somebody to talk to im always here
Thank ou so much
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Don't make any emotional decisions. This is such a personal choice for you and you're going through a lot right now. Plus your hormones are probably making you really confused. Take your time to decide what is best for you. Good luck with your decision x
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