Single and pregnant

[Sashatshabalala]

This guy was an angel i could tell him every thing a true gentleman and we dated after 3 weeks of dating we made love and a month later we found out I was pregnant when I told him he gave me R900 and told me he doesn't want the child i am 21 years and I can't bring myself to killing this baby 7 weeks pregnant I don't know what to do please help

[Sashatshabalala]

I am keeping this baby he doesn't have a reason just that he is not ready and he said one thing I will always hate him for who wants to have a child with a rape victim you are not fit to be a mother and that is what sawed me that I have a chance to change some bodies life and in this case my baby i am two months tomorrow and i Thank god for this blessing thanks ladies

[luxah]

It's not his decision, and with him giving you those drugs you could put him in jail. He is not a doctor, and even if he is he is not your doctor. Is there a reason he does not want the baby? To me it sounds like you would regret- in your own words- killing your baby. If you view it as such then don't do it hun. I'm not sure why you would think your child would have to grow up like you did if the father wasn't around, sometimes that can be a blessing. I have never met my real father, he died shortly after I was born. But the man I call dad, life would have been so much easier if he never came around. But that was my mother's decision. So for whatever your reason is, just make sure you're trying the best you can, cus in the end thats all any of us can do.

[AlejandraMV]

My father left when I was only 2 weeks old. And I didn't have contact with him until I was 18 years old. I can promise you that I was better off being raised by my single mother than I would have been if my father would have stuck around. You will have to make some sacrifices, but you will be so happy with your decision. My mother worked hard and has always been there for me. Single moms are so special. :)

[Hmph16]

Everything happens for a reason. Whatever you choose I'm sure it will be the best decision you can make

[Sashatshabalala]

True after all this baby is growing inside me so it is my decision.

[bevnunez]

If you really want the baby I say keep it no one can make you kill an innocent baby and if you see that you can't do it just put the baby up for adoption... There are so many programs that help woman while pregnant like medicade and wic... and as far as the child growing up and asking for his/her father I would tell them the truth but God can always send someone into your life that would be and father to that child... anyways sorry for writing alot I wish you and your precious baby the best of luck keep your head up and do what you what not what others tell you

[Sashatshabalala]

Thanks a lot ladies i needed that and I already told my mom and sex said I should do what he wants coz i can't put my baby thru what i went thru coz if the baby asked me where her/his daddy is but i told my self that I work and I can do this on my own

[kcanario]

I promise you are not the only one. Many women go thru it and it always gets better. Forget him becuz now u have something so precious that will bring you all the joy and happiness u will ever need. Ur only 7 weeks-wait til u feel its first kicks. U will not regret keeping it. Its his lost-ur blessing ;-)

[Babyblessing26]

Girl you'll be okay just pray God will get u threw it I recommend u talk to u mom moms always no best . And if he doesn't want to be there that's his problem u just got blessed with the best blessing god could have ever blessed u with . Keep u head up everything will work out

[bb_starr]

Girl I'm sorry to hear that its a ducky situation. But you CAN do this with or without him it might be challenging but it can be done. Killing a baby is never a answer remember he/she has a heartbeat already! If you don't want it there are plenty of couples willing to adopt who can't conceive. Keep your head up momma it sounds to me he isn't worth your time and you shouldn't stress over him. :)