abortion ?

[Cassie42015]

I want an abortion but im scared about the process. Please dont judge. Its a long story behind it. I just cant have this baby. Has any ever had one ? And how did u feel afterwards ?

[bubblebean11]

Pregnancy is always possible when one decides to have sex. So we need to think that it could happen every time. I have tried for two and a half years to become pregnant with my little miracle that I'm carrying now. You really could make someone else's dream come true by adopting this sweet miracle to someone who has been waiting . I pray that you can find peace andyou could go to LDS social services and get help to find a family and resources to pay for the pregnancy. My God bless you and the baby.

[bubblebean11]

Give the baby its chance and give it up for adoption.

[missie9]

Oh my god, the poor girl asks for one thing; please don't judge. You don't know a thing about her situation and still you decide to do just that; judge.  
I recommend cassie to really think about all alternatives before she makes up her mind. And yes, some people have a hard time after an abortion, psychologically. And some of us get over it. Whichever decision you make, it should be your own. Don't let anyone else influence your choice. You're the only on who knows what's best for you.
I know i could never give up my baby for adoption. For me the choice was between keeping the baby or having an abortion. I knew abortion was the right code for me and I have never had any regrets.

[RedRose28]

I had an abortion when I was 21. I was to nieve (sp) and didnt think I was pregnant till I finally went to the Dr. because I thought something else was wrong with me. I was about done with my first trimester when I found out. The dad wanted me to have an abortion and we were a freinds with benifits kind of relationship. I wanted to keep it so bad at that point. Then we went to his brothers place and his sister in law chewed me a new one and broke my spirit. Seriously shes a B**** anyways but I let her get to me. I finally reluctantly decided to abort the baby and was in my second semester. The procedure was so painful and required an in office visit to implant seaweed to dialte my cervex for the O.R. procedure the next day.
I have an ultrasound picture to remind me of the worst mistake I knew I have ever made in my life and I regret it every day of my life.
You should think long and hard on this choice because it can mess you up mentally and make sure your reasons for not having the baby are legitamite. You may never forgive yourself and live with the choice you made. I allowed people to push me into something I didnt want so if this seems to be the case for you kick those people out of your life right now and do what you think is right. If anything you can always put your little one up for adoption.
Hope this helps!!!

[lucas1993]

Personally i never had one will never have one in my life .. i see that if u can have sex and get pregnant then u can take responsibilty and ur consequences along with the decision you made instead of killing a life . Just because maybe its because of age or the father doesnt matter i was 17 with my first fibushed school and been having all these jobs to take care of my child and now 21 with my second . I would never abort and i never regret my childern .. at the end of the day ur childeren will always be there for you and love you !

[wiggles2015]

I would suggest going on with the pregnancy. I'm not judging or anything but I think abortion is wrong. But that's my own opinion. I'm pregnant n I'm keeping my baby I've already grown attached n love this baby. But if its just because u dnt want to be pregnant thats just wrong bevause ita ur fault not the babys. But if you got raped then that's diff. But if its just bevause u dnt want to be pregnant or have kids then do adoption. There are women that can't get pregnat n want children but can't. They would love to have a child. N I believe it would make you happier n even those ppl. They would sharish u. Just do the right thing.