what should i do?

[fab_chelsy]

Hello everyone, I'm 20 years old, my periods are 5 days late, I took a pregnancy test this morning and it turned out positive. I'm still studying and I don't think its a good idea to keep the baby. I must be just 1 month pregnant. I want to have an abortion, what type of abortion do you think I'll go through? Chemical or surgical? I'm just soo scared. My parents are so strict and I'm afraid that they'll even kick me out of the house if they find out

[coryreply719]

Hi There. I'm so sorry you're going through this. You're in my prayers today. As far as your parents go, after the initial shock and hurt they may feel wears off, I'm sure they will be in your corener backing you 100%. They love you. You will need their support and strength no matter what you choose to do.

#Livn'ItUpInCO

[specialmom]

Do you live somewhere in which you could look into abortion. In the states, Planned Parenthood is a clinic that often performs abortions and often on a sliding fee scale dependent on income.  The procedure is not difficult or very complex and most women are up and about a day later.  

I'm happy to talk about it if you have any questions.

I understand that it isn't always the best time to have a child.  Many women have abortions and are pleased that they could get their life in order. And later go on to have a family at a better time.  

This is your choice.  Please weed out those that are just against abortion as they don't care about your particular situation and will always say abortion is a bad choice.  But, they won't be there to help you if you have the baby.

Abortion/termination is an option that suites some people's situation and only you can decide if that is you.  Obviously, your other options are adoption or keeping the baby both with their own list of complexities to consider.  Do what is best for you hon.  That is what is most important.  peace

[Yewoqirife]

Unpopular perspective: I know people who have had an abortion and were devastated. Many speak for years about the regret. While it may be difficult, look into adoption. I know a couple that to this day struggles with their sons "birthday" after they aborted him. He would be in his 40s now. Just a new perspective because many people only think about the physical changes, not the emotional or mental aftereffects. If you still decide to continue, that is your choice. However, I like the idea of fully informed concent before such a large decision.

[nicolehamilton0322]

You may be only a month or so along and if you don't want the child and need more time in life to finish what you started please go for the abortion before your too far along I'm glad you know what you want don't let anyone talk you out of what you already know what you want

[Cassie_rondo]

Bump

[Cassie_rondo]

Also it does not hurt at all. They Put YOU To Sleep And YOU Never Know What Happened

[Cassie_rondo]

Hey if you really want to have am abortion that's your choice and don't let anyone cloud your judgment.  Make sure this is what you really want. If your only a month they might just give you the pill or both. Goodluck honey. Only you know what's best for you.

[pammy_love_]

I personally don't believe in abortions but I definitely don't judge because I understand!  But a friend of mine who got one took an abortion pill and she said it takes about 3-4 weeks for the bleeding to stop and she said it was very painful..just an option....but always keep your options open...my parents were also very strict growing up and yes at first they are disappointed but they will always love you...my mom wants me to actually move back home with her so she can help so you never know! Best of luck!  :)