First of all I didn't post this thought to cause so much conflict. I am a person who hates conflict and would never cause it on purpose. I also and not a angry person. I did get defensive when it felt like to me my husbands integrity was being questioned. My husband though a man of God, has his own struggles and he is honest with me about everything, even if it hurts sometimes. I know he would never cheat on me. I apologize for sounding threating, I didn't mean it. I was just upset. I really do enjoy talking on these forums and don't want you ladies to think me unapproachable. So please consider this questions dropped and please accept my sincerest apology to all those I frustrated or offended.