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Apology to all especially Sparkeler

First of all I didn't post this thought to cause so much conflict. I am a person who hates conflict and would never cause it on purpose. I also and not a angry person. I did get defensive when it felt like to me my husbands integrity was being questioned. My husband though a man of God, has his own struggles and he is honest with me about everything, even if it hurts sometimes. I know he would never cheat on me. I apologize for sounding threating, I didn't mean it. I was just upset. I really do enjoy talking on these forums and don't want you ladies to think me unapproachable. So please consider this questions dropped and please accept my sincerest apology to all those I frustrated or offended.
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Okay, you win.  Yours is definately worse.  Mine makes me think of the mother on "Everybody Loves Raymond"!!!  She definately wouldn't ask me to cook something for her.  And especially not if she was going to let people think she made it.  She can cook better than me, you know.  So, what the hay...I figure let her do the cooking if it suits her.  And the cleaning, if it suits her.  As long as she stays on her side of the hill and I stay on mine, we usually do okay.  But sometimes, oh my goodness!!The fur flies and it's every man for himself. LOL
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I had to put my foot down. Christmas is busy enough. On Cristmas day I wnt to see my kids enjoy all the stuff we have bought. Not rush, rush, so she can be happy. She had her years when dh was little. She'll cry and sling snot for a while, but she'll get over it. One year she pulled one of her stunts cause we were late. My fil got ticked off at her/ walked up on the Mt. in the snow and stayed all day. See, she ticks everybody off!!  At church the other day they were asking people to bake cookies and stuff for the church to take to the prison. she had the nerve to ask me to fix her something to take!! She hs NOTHING to do!! No job, no kids, and she DEFINATLY doesn't clean her house. All she does is shop. needless to say - I said no!
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143952 tn?1237864541
mine, too!  i'm surprised we survived our first christmases together.  we'd have to hang around until midnight or so christmas eve, then they'd always ask if we could be back by 8 am to open presents.  it's a one hour drive - guess they didn't think we needed to sleep.  now they usually go out of town. yipee!
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OMG!!  I wonder if we have the same MIL and don't know it?!
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I agree! I remember as a kid Christmas being so calm. Maybe it wasn't for my parents, but I miss the feeling of excitement of Christmas. Not the worry about buying gifts and all the other. I still have santa shopping to do!! I know my kids probably know by now, but I still like doin it. i'll probably have santa till their grown. lol I'm on a mission for moon shoes this week. Also, some computer game that you can put makeup on people. I can't find it!!!!!!!!

Dh's granny invited us to her anual Christmas dinner this sat. She called and wants me to fix stuff. I don't mind, but what she wants me to fix is gonna cost a fortune. I think that's kinda rude of her. She knows things are tough this year. Oh well, life goes on, I guess. Of course mil is goin to buy a pie at the store. ugggg! I won't even start on that one.
She is mad this year cause we want to stay home with the kids. I don't want to go anywhere Christmas say. She has been crying becaue her lil boy won't be with her. HE'S 3O YEARS OLD! She wants us up there Christmas morning. Has every year. I don't think that right of her. I want to be with our lil' family. I told her she can come up here, but she won't. i told my partents the deal and they are goin to come up Chrismas morning to see us. So, why can't she???? Cause she's selfish.
I refuse to let her ruin Chrismas though. She even made a comment to the kids about it. How low is that? Trying to make kids feel sorry for her. Oh well, i have the Christams spirit and i'll be darned if she makes me lose it.
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parties shmarties. isnt this time of the year supposed to be a time to reflect on family and what is important? maybe you need to say no to a few of these. embrace this time, the kids are young, the love is flowing, and remember what is important right now. i try to remember it isnt the shopping and gifts that make it special. everyone has made it so commercialized that we need to be this way or that way or buy this or that. its the love of our family and spending that special time together. to celebrate (religiously if we do) what this time means to us. take a breather and love that wonderful family you have!!!! how sad we love christmas soo much , yet say "when is it over?". i so love this time of the year, i try to hold onto it as long as i can!!
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Your kids are done on Tuesday?  How long do they have off for Christmas break?  I have to teach all the way to next Friday!  Boo!  New York State- Boo!
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I know I'm going crazy.
I still haven't finished all my shopping, and my kids are out of school on Tuesday.  I haven't seen my hubby all week, because we have both had different schedules.  This is such a joyful time of year!!!

School parties, church parties, work parties, neighborhood parties....I'm partied out.

This place is like a reprieve for me.
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Hi there!  I know I haven't been posting lately.  I think people may be busy with the holidays.
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I know--we can only get by with this after 5.  During regular business hours, we would've been pulled.
We're not being mean, though. Just finally talking like everybody used to.  Where is everybody else?
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93654 tn?1247499334
LOL! Who would have thought that Brandi's apology would have turned into all this!
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How about wearing a wife beater with a braided pubic mullet stuck to a magnetic pole, in the library with Col. Mustard...
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haha  You are killing me!!!
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That is braids on the pubes, right?

Did anyone mention dredlocks?
...or metal poles with magnets?

How 'bout some liver slapping?
That's pretty dern casual to me.
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150483 tn?1212168556
Or piercings & a swing...Wowsa
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If you really want to "dress it up" try some braids.  Works wonders!!!!!
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I just have to post a comment to post one hehe
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130384 tn?1221593027
"matching pasties"

AAAAAAAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!!!
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143952 tn?1237864541
ouch!  don't those rhinestones hurt?  oh, you must take them off quicky :)
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I like to use my Bedazaller (TM) on my neon thong and matching pasties. If I want to go extra formal, I will wear my dress flip-flops.
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172023 tn?1334672284
I have to use glitter to get that effect.
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143952 tn?1237864541
i prefer formal sex so that i can show off all my jewelery - makes me all sparkley
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130384 tn?1221593027
Either your birthday suit or a wife beater.
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93654 tn?1247499334
What is the proper attired for casual sex?
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