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abortion at 4 weeks pregnancy
i am suspecting that im 4 weeks pregnant. but i want to do abortion, so is ther any problems to do DNC after 4th weeks?plz help me out with ans.
Girl girl girl, find another forum to write on about abortion. You will get some nasty responses. This is a pregnancy forum. Women here are trying to have babies (healthy babies)..Most of us do not believe in abortion. I am totally against it so there for I am just going to help you out by saying find another forum.
It`s too early. You should wait. You can make abortion (DNC) until 10 week od pregnancy counting from the last date of menstrual cycle.
no one be nasty to her... just tell her to go to another a site.. some people just dont reaslize what kind of forum they are one.
nowsin.. go to another site please.. very one here wants healthy pregnancys.
nowsin.. go to another site please.. very one here wants healthy pregnancys.
Why do you say 4 weeks is too early?? Are you suggesting that she give this baby MORE time to grow and develope BEFORE MURDERING it. Wow, great advice!!
kirby26 - Why should we have compassion for her, when she has NONE for her unborn baby?
kirby26 - Why should we have compassion for her, when she has NONE for her unborn baby?
she hasnt even commented back since her post... she may have taken the adivce and left the forum.. like i said before, maybe she didnt know that everyone was against abortion. when you go into the forum it doesnt say WOMAN ON HERE ARE STRONGLY AGAINST ABORTION.. it says.. pregnancy woman 34 and under. I just hate how everyone attacks ppl on here.. its stupid and immature.
no ... for fighting, when the person isnt even on here anymore. it could have been a fake poster. im not responding to this post anymore.. its not worth it.
I hope you realize that by the time you find out your are pregnant, your baby most likely has a heartbeat. I don't understand how anyone can purposely stop the beating of a heart and not call it murder. JMO
I agree with the others...you should find another forum. this just isn't the place for these types of questions.
I agree with the others...you should find another forum. this just isn't the place for these types of questions.
that is what kirby is saying. this is not a place for perosnal opinion arguments. it is to help others not attack them. i think the fact that kirby nicely asked her not to post this question was the best thing instead of people getting all hyped up and angry. Anger is not the way to go and does not get us very far.
Just keep in mind the hormones that are flying all over this forum. =)
I was not trying to twist this back on you, please don't think that.
I understand that bickering gets old, but you can't stop the strong feelings on abortion that most of us feel. We cannot mask it, or hide it, it needs to be released.
I was not trying to twist this back on you, please don't think that.
I understand that bickering gets old, but you can't stop the strong feelings on abortion that most of us feel. We cannot mask it, or hide it, it needs to be released.
You can't stop people from voicing THEIR opinion.. just like you just voiced YOURS. This is an OPEN forum.
No need to get angry, you are doing the SAME THING that you wanted to STOP.
No need to get angry, you are doing the SAME THING that you wanted to STOP.
There is an abortion forum on MedHelp. I strongly advise that you go there for your questions about this topic.
Seems to me that lately there are alot of posts related to this,having an abortion.i personally think these people are posting things like this for a response from us all.which clearly they are getting.ive answered many in the past but dont bother now,if people post replys,it just fuelling the fire,so to speak,i also assumed from this girls other posts she wanted to be pregnant but was worried about cysts..i dont know.i have visiting this site for a while now,its slowly becoming the stage that i cant tell truth from fact.which is such a shame.
I agreee with you, the fact that these posts keep on coming proves one thing....as long as women keep on responding to these posts, especially with such emotion and passion, then these posts will keep on coming, ladies, i know this is a sensitive subject, and im not even going to tell you that you should be nice, but if you TRULY want to see these posts stop, you really need to stop responding to them. The people that do this get off on the rage that this topic produces. Being that this topic is not one that fits inder the pregnancy format, it does not warrant a response. Not even a "go to another forum"...just ignore it, they will stop when they see there is no more entertainment to be had from it.
id just like to say its very hurtful to post something about chosing to have an abortion on a fourm of women who very much want to have babies and are having trouble... I miscarried a baby that was planned and very much wanted and to read something like this makes me sick. Please fins another fourm
I agree with Kirby and Tarajanes-most of these are fake posters trying to get all your panties in a bunch. Simply reply "go to another forum!"
I appreciate that many women on this forum have strong one sided views on abortion but i too agree that if people dont have any consructive advice to provide they should move onto the next post.
I found out i was expecting on 27th December to an ex partner who has done nothing but use me fos s*x, hurt me mentally and physically and publically humiliate me since we broke up last year.
I have no shame in admitting that i booked in for a termination on the 8th January as i saw i had no other choice.
Thankfully, i changed my mind before going ahead with the procedure and am now 10 weeks 4 days and cant wait to hold my little bundle of joy. I too have had a miscarriage and i know the heartache it causes but i also have friends who have had terminations because mentally they couldnt cope with having a child at this time in their lives.
I know there are 'other options' as people keep pointing out but to carry a child and give it up after 9 months would be near on impossible for any woman and whilst i commend those who manage it, it is not something i even considered when i found out i was pregnant, it would cause even further heartache to many people who in some cases are at the lowest point in their lives.
I know many people here look down on termination, and whilst i am glad i didnt go through with the procedure i dont think any one of us has lived a perfect life without making a single mistake.
It is a decision women will have to live with for the rest of their lives and i truly believe they suffer in silence in fear of the response they will get if they were to admit it and look for support.
If these sort of posts upset people they should refrain from responding. It is not fair to kick people when they are down, regardless of any silly choices they may have made.
I found out i was expecting on 27th December to an ex partner who has done nothing but use me fos s*x, hurt me mentally and physically and publically humiliate me since we broke up last year.
I have no shame in admitting that i booked in for a termination on the 8th January as i saw i had no other choice.
Thankfully, i changed my mind before going ahead with the procedure and am now 10 weeks 4 days and cant wait to hold my little bundle of joy. I too have had a miscarriage and i know the heartache it causes but i also have friends who have had terminations because mentally they couldnt cope with having a child at this time in their lives.
I know there are 'other options' as people keep pointing out but to carry a child and give it up after 9 months would be near on impossible for any woman and whilst i commend those who manage it, it is not something i even considered when i found out i was pregnant, it would cause even further heartache to many people who in some cases are at the lowest point in their lives.
I know many people here look down on termination, and whilst i am glad i didnt go through with the procedure i dont think any one of us has lived a perfect life without making a single mistake.
It is a decision women will have to live with for the rest of their lives and i truly believe they suffer in silence in fear of the response they will get if they were to admit it and look for support.
If these sort of posts upset people they should refrain from responding. It is not fair to kick people when they are down, regardless of any silly choices they may have made.
I am sorry for your loss. I am very glad that you decided to let the baby that you are carrrying have a life. You chose to give life to your little one, and I am sure it was a difficult decision for you. At the time you conceived did you know your ex was using your body for "sex"? Because that is what you chose to do with your body at the time of conception. It is great that you found the courage to create a life that you will be responsible for for the rest of your life.
Most of us on this forum chose to have babies by having sex with a partner that we CHOSE.
I do not see voicing your opinion about abortion as kicking someone when they are down. Were they "down" when they decided to have sex, the act that led to conception? Most of them CHOSE to have sex.
Bottom line, you women cannot expect that everything will be hunky dorey here when someone posts about aborting a baby. No matter how much you post about how wrong it is. It is our CHOICE to VOICE our opinions, just as it is THEIR CHOICE to ABORT their baby!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Most of us on this forum chose to have babies by having sex with a partner that we CHOSE.
I do not see voicing your opinion about abortion as kicking someone when they are down. Were they "down" when they decided to have sex, the act that led to conception? Most of them CHOSE to have sex.
Bottom line, you women cannot expect that everything will be hunky dorey here when someone posts about aborting a baby. No matter how much you post about how wrong it is. It is our CHOICE to VOICE our opinions, just as it is THEIR CHOICE to ABORT their baby!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
My ex and i were together for 3 years and parted in March 07. After this he continued to come back to me and believeing that he still cared for me, and being madly in love i welcomed him with open arms.
I was so deluded that even when he slept with my best frined and claimed it was a "mistake" i took him back, excuses and all.
Its taken the shock of this pregnancy to give me the kick up the butt i need and get my life in order. I am 20 years old, have just left uni and am in the middle of joining the police, which i fully intend to carry on with.
However in my circumstances many girls would have proceeded with the termination, and i wouldnt have judged them for it.
I honestly cant wait to have this baby and shower ihim/her with all the love and affection i can possibly give him/her. S/he will have a mummy that loves her more than anything else in the world but many women are not mentally in a position to be able to do that.
Many women are left so low where men are concerned, many the victims of rape or mental and physical abuse. I dont think it is our place to judge them.
As my mum always said, if you dont have anything nice to say, dont say anything at all.
I was so deluded that even when he slept with my best frined and claimed it was a "mistake" i took him back, excuses and all.
Its taken the shock of this pregnancy to give me the kick up the butt i need and get my life in order. I am 20 years old, have just left uni and am in the middle of joining the police, which i fully intend to carry on with.
However in my circumstances many girls would have proceeded with the termination, and i wouldnt have judged them for it.
I honestly cant wait to have this baby and shower ihim/her with all the love and affection i can possibly give him/her. S/he will have a mummy that loves her more than anything else in the world but many women are not mentally in a position to be able to do that.
Many women are left so low where men are concerned, many the victims of rape or mental and physical abuse. I dont think it is our place to judge them.
As my mum always said, if you dont have anything nice to say, dont say anything at all.
I have been on B/C for 5 years and have fallen pregnant twice. My aunt had all 4 of her children on the pill.BC is not infalible.
I am not ashamed to say i booked in for a termination. I was an emotional wreck and it seemed like the only way out. Until you are in that situation you will never understand,
In the past year i have suffered from gynocological problems, a serious operation, a breast cancer scare, a mega relationship breakdown and betrayal by my best friend and partner.
I took precautions and it still happened - now that it has and i have sought help and support i am overjoyed. I had my scan on wednesday and my little ones pic sits pride of place on my bedside table.
Some women though dont have the chance to get help and support, for some people there may seem no other way
I am not ashamed to say i booked in for a termination. I was an emotional wreck and it seemed like the only way out. Until you are in that situation you will never understand,
In the past year i have suffered from gynocological problems, a serious operation, a breast cancer scare, a mega relationship breakdown and betrayal by my best friend and partner.
I took precautions and it still happened - now that it has and i have sought help and support i am overjoyed. I had my scan on wednesday and my little ones pic sits pride of place on my bedside table.
Some women though dont have the chance to get help and support, for some people there may seem no other way
i am not sure why you are attacking me, since i DID NOT voice my opinion in the least bit, that is why people on here do not know whether i am pro life or pro choice because that is my privacy and i keep it that way. All i said is i agree with kirby that people should not open the link then if they are all gonna fight about it. i can see if people want to get into heated arguments in person but this is over the computer and nothing will be accomplished from it!
This is for everyone who is saying, "Don't open Forum." "If you don't have anything nice don't say it." "Ignore the post." If yall don't care then why the hell are you even opening the post to type that...******* retarded. You are showing your oinions just as everyone else is showing theres. Yall are the ones starting the whole argument anyway. If yall wouldn't open the post and type that **** then everything would be ok. If the original poster didn't like what we had to say then they would move on and seek help elsewhere..Right??...That's what I thought. We who are stongly againt abortion are voicing our opinion as we are free to do. Yes, you are free to voice yours too by telling us ignore the post but hey don't tell us to quit voicing ours because you don't like what we say...Anyone who is saying ignore the post are the ones getting their panties in bunch....If you really think about what I am saying you will see I am right.
Okay, I'm a bit confused. your pregnancy is ectopic? I see you have another post that says you have a 4 week ectopic pregnancy. i mean if it's ectopic then the doctor will tell you what they have to do...
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