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bleeding during sex? is there something wrong with me! help. read this one.

I'm a 17 year old female.  When I was 15 I had sex for the first time, right after that I got checked out to make sure everything was okay as I was always told to go to a doctor after the first time you have sex.  I then didn't have sex again until I was sixteen, just last summer a few times,  and everything was fine and it was with only one person.  Since summer I have had sex numerous times with the same person.  About 5  weeks ago I bled while we were having sex,  but afterwards I didn't bleed at all. I've had what I'd consider "rough" sex before, and haven't bled, and now when it's slow as he's afraid of hurting me I do! I know its not an STD because my guy has been checked and hasnet been with anyone since, and I was checked after the first guy. Ive had sex in a hottub and one of my friends says that could be a possibility as why it is happening, but I doubt it. I even waited it out a month to see what happened and just the other day the same thing.  It's not overly heavy, or thick, but it's embarrasing.  I hate hate hate going to doctors, and don't want to tell my mom, as she would disown me! I'm not on the pill, there is no other reasonable answer! can someone help me? please I just want this to stop. . . any advice?!?!
thanks
Jen
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I started having sex a few months ago and everything was fine, but tonight when we had sex I bled everywhere. We were both virgins the first time we did it. I want to know why I suddenly started bleeding....Does anyone know?
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ive been reading your comments and everything and i kinda have the same problem... im dating this guy and i was a virgin and we just recently had sex for the first time for my birthday and i just got off my period about a week ago and he popped my cherry and now everytime we have sex i keep bleeding during it and sometimes after...whats wrong with it i knw we dont have std's because we just got checked a few days ago. So what is wrong with me? please help i need advice.
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im having the same problem.
ive never bled before; EVER.
everytime before we used a condom.
but this time we didnt.
could that have to do with anything?
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i am 18 neally 19 and i am with an older man just resently i have started to bleed whilst havin sex i am so worried it has never happen with any of my ex bfs can any one help with my prob n give me sum advice plz thanx
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Ok I had the same thing and it was nothing major, it was a sore on my cervix.  You need to go to the doctor and she will treat you in her office, it is really not a big deal.  It will continue and get worse if you don't get it treated and eventually you will be so swollen and sore with infection you won't want to have sex.
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lol soz posted this message 3 Times, I'm a dumb blonde sorry xxxx
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