bleeding during sex? is there something wrong with me! help. read this one.

[jenna37823]

I'm a 17 year old female.  When I was 15 I had sex for the first time, right after that I got checked out to make sure everything was okay as I was always told to go to a doctor after the first time you have sex.  I then didn't have sex again until I was sixteen, just last summer a few times,  and everything was fine and it was with only one person.  Since summer I have had sex numerous times with the same person.  About 5  weeks ago I bled while we were having sex,  but afterwards I didn't bleed at all. I've had what I'd consider "rough" sex before, and haven't bled, and now when it's slow as he's afraid of hurting me I do! I know its not an STD because my guy has been checked and hasnet been with anyone since, and I was checked after the first guy. Ive had sex in a hottub and one of my friends says that could be a possibility as why it is happening, but I doubt it. I even waited it out a month to see what happened and just the other day the same thing.  It's not overly heavy, or thick, but it's embarrasing.  I hate hate hate going to doctors, and don't want to tell my mom, as she would disown me! I'm not on the pill, there is no other reasonable answer! can someone help me? please I just want this to stop. . . any advice?!?!
thanks
Jen

[Kat80888]

I'm 18 and a half nearly 19 and Me and my boyfriend are experiencing similar problems! Every time we have sex I bleed after and during. It really made me feel sick last night because he ended up having blood on his bed. I've slept with other men before him and have never had this issue. It's really getting me down now. My boyfriend and I thought that maybe his penis is too large for me and thats the reason to why i'm bleeding but i thought that it maybe an STI. I'm worried now so tomorrow I'm going to the clinic to get checked out. Better to do it sooner rather than later. My Ex boyfriend, The one before my now current boyfriend, had two timed me so i decided to get an STI test done because i was scared so if i do have an STI. Luckily i didn't have an STI. So if i do have one now it will be from my current boyfriend now. Me and my current boyfriend used lube last night hoping that would help but it obviously didnt. The blood was a dark shade of red and was defenetly not a period. I came off two weeks ago. I'm on the pill aswell but I do have unprotected sex because i enjoy it more than with a condom. Please help me with advice because this is destroying my sex life. I do however enjoy having sex but its not exactly a turn on for me or my boyfriend when there is blood. Please write back if anyone has advice, P.S If i have an STI do I tell my boyfriend? because he may have it to? thankyou xxxx

[Kat80888]

I'm 18 and a half nearly 19 and Me and my boyfriend are experiencing similar problems! Every time we have sex I bleed after and during. It really made me feel sick last night because he ended up having blood on his bed. I've slept with other men before him and have never had this issue. It's really getting me down now. My boyfriend and I thought that maybe his penis is too large for me and thats the reason to why i'm bleeding but i thought that it maybe an STI. I'm worried now so tomorrow I'm going to the clinic to get checked out. Better to do it sooner rather than later. My Ex boyfriend, The one before my now current boyfriend, had two timed me so i decided to get an STI test done because i was scared so if i do have an STI. Luckily i didn't have an STI. So if i do have one now it will be from my current boyfriend now. Me and my current boyfriend used lube last night hoping that would help but it obviously didnt. The blood was a dark shade of red and was defenetly not a period. I came off two weeks ago. I'm on the pill aswell but I do have unprotected sex because i enjoy it more than with a condom. Please help me with advice because this is destroying my sex life. I do however enjoy having sex but its not exactly a turn on for me or my boyfriend when there is blood. Please write back if anyone has advice, P.S If i have an STI do I tell my boyfriend? because he may have it to? thankyou xxxx

[Kat80888]

I'm 18 and a half nearly 19 and Me and my boyfriend are experiencing similar problems! Every time we have sex I bleed after and during. It really made me feel sick last night because he ended up having blood on his bed. I've slept with other men before him and have never had this issue. It's really getting me down now. My boyfriend and I thought that maybe his penis is too large for me and thats the reason to why i'm bleeding but i thought that it maybe an STI. I'm worried now so tomorrow I'm going to the clinic to get checked out. Better to do it sooner rather than later. My Ex boyfriend, The one before my now current boyfriend, had two timed me so i decided to get an STI test done because i was scared so if i do have an STI. Luckily i didn't have an STI. So if i do have one now it will be from my current boyfriend now. Me and my current boyfriend used lube last night hoping that would help but it obviously didnt. The blood was a dark shade of red and was defenetly not a period. I came off two weeks ago. I'm on the pill aswell but I do have unprotected sex because i enjoy it more than with a condom. Please help me with advice because this is destroying my sex life. I do however enjoy having sex but its not exactly a turn on for me or my boyfriend when there is blood. Please write back if anyone has advice, P.S If i have an STI do I tell my boyfriend? because he may have it to? thankyou xxxx

[tinkerbell22]

Hi jenny, I read your comments and am having EXACTLY the same problems, have you been tested yet? Im really scared of going to the doctors, im scared what they're going to tell me.
If you have any advice, drop us a line,

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Thanks!

[Jenni6485]

You've recieved all sorts of POV's of what it could be, but I want to add this. I knew someone that bled everytime she had sex with certain guys. No history of STD's, perfectly healthy, she's just small down there, and at certain times, she bled. It didnt necessarily come with pain, it was just appart of her anatomy. So, if all else fails, and everything is fine, take into consideration that it's just the way you're body was made. :-) Sometimes our bodies do strange things that are unexplained.. It's what makes us all different. :-)

[jenna37823]

okay thanks