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i don't know if i can get pregnant

When i was little from 8 to 13 i was molested by my stepdad, and i've tried to get pregnant several times, and its never happened, does it have anything to do with being molested or am i just messed up? I'd really like to have kids if not now, some day...but i'm not sure i can actually get pregnant i don't see why i haven't already i've tried everything. Whats wrong with me?
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i'm about to be 27 and i want to start a family but i cant get pregnet i dont know why.my mom had nine of us my sister has a daughter and my brother ha 4 kids and mom has cancer and is going to die soon and i want to be able to give give her a grand child before she goes. i never grew up with her because i was sick and now that she's back in my life me and my husbin want this for all three of us
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It seems Im not alone with wonting to start a family. Im also young 21 and my bf 20. I wont just one right now but Im also scared I cant. I was really  wonting to no y is it that the ones whom really wont a baby to care for, love and to treat better then we were treated can't. It ***** but is it a sign or wat. I feel that everyone understands that having a baby is a lifelong thing and will come with different type of problems, heck wat in life doesn't then. I feel its not fair to say that im to young to take care for my baby i have come along way with the support of my bf and his family i can go ne where. I feel that with the support of at least one person every young girl can do there part. life is hard we all no but y cant i decide wat in my life will b the hard part. whats hard for you may b simple to me so dont judge me no one is perfect people we all just have to go threw things.
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hi im young. im 18 years old and i have had sex many times wit my bf and he has *** in me many times and i hav not gotten preg. but mi mom says that in our family the females get preg very quick. lik we hav a large family. even mi aunts hav like atleast 5 kids . an mi mom has 7 all together and im the 2nd oldest girl. n mi mom tells me 2 b careful but i dont c y bc nothing has happen 4 me 2 get preg. And we even hav sets of twins in the families. and i am not on brith control. Am i able 2 get preg? how can i kno? please sum 1 with answers let me kno so i kno 4 mi future
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hi my name is andrea im 20 yrs old and i have been w my fiance for 4 yrs now (high school sweethearts), and we have talked about having a family and were not ready rite now(which is why we do use protecetion) but what measues could/should i take to find out if i can concieve bc my cycle is irregular? also i have fetal alcohol syndrome which just means i am really tiny for my age (98 lbs 5'2'') i was born w it and idk if that would contribute any complications.. thank you
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I WANT TO GET PERGNANT BUT I DONT KNOW IF I CAN GET PREGNANT WILL IM IN MY TEN DAY . OR HOW  WILL I KNOW IF I CAN T GET PREGNANT?
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I WANT TO GET PERGNANT BUT I DONT KNOW IF I CAN GET PREGNANT WILL IM IN MY TEN DAY . OR HOW  WILL I KNOW IF I CAN T GET PREGNANT?
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