How to keep from stressing...

[zephyr3]

I'm 32. Trying to get pregnant for the first time but I'm tryyyyyyying not to stress about it. I keep hearing, if you stress about it, it makes it much harder to conceive. It's hard to focus about anything other than my CD, clomid, OPK surges, low BBT's, short luteal phase, etc..........  Can someone give me advice on how to just RELAX and let it happen.....

[thefebygirl]

lol.. u r not alone.. well, we were ttc for abt 1 1/2 year now no luck so far. DH hav low counts.. n' i'm in school too.. so thought may be we "TTC" after i finish school etc.. so that TTC n' MAKING BABIES r off of my mind now .. but i'm not sad ( i was in the begiing) I focus on music, more relaxing ways like meditation.. or just hang out with family/frinds ( sumtimes with my sis/frinds we makes funny dance vdos lol ) sooo just try to focus on anything u enjoy. n' it will happnen. n' always blive, God has a better plan for you. we plan somthing good for us, God plan somthing better for us. so just go with the flow. :) The more you trust/ faith on Him, He will loves you. n' when He loves you, He will surely bless you the one you always want :)

[Salorja]

I'm just as stressed...really thought it was just me.

[sandyc10]

I feel the same way but a lil hekp want hurt from a doc and im excited to get started on my meds in 2 more weeks that's what he put them there for so if your having problems ttc then seek other help it's nothing with it.. I put God first with everything....

[Swtshae]

I hear ya!!! It's so hard to relax, but what I find myself doing after TTC for almost a year and a half is find something else to do when I begin thinking about having a baby. I just try to turn my attention away from it. At the beginning, it was sl overwhelming. I researched and stayed on the computer time after time. But once I hit the year mark and no baby, I realized that this is something that is truly out of my hands. Yes I used OPKs, cervical mucus, and whatever else. That's exhausting. So I've come to terms with it and trust that God will provide. I know it sounds cheesy but I rely on him to get me through it.

Hope this helps!