About three weeks ago I stupidly visited a massage parlor for the first time. The woman put my penis in her mouth for about 10-15 seconds, then proceeded to use her saliva to finish me by hand. Since then my anxiety level has reached epic proportions. I went to my doctor the next day and he put me on doxycycline as a precaution against chlamydia and gonorreah. He advised testing for other std's after a 4 week wait period. The stress was killing me and I confessed to my wife. About a week after the unprotected oral sex, I developed a sensitivity on the head of my penis in two spots. One spot was on the ridge of the penis head and it took on a very slight purple coloration and very slight swelling. The other spot was near the urethra, and this is also purplish with no swelling. Back to my doctor and he did urine test for urethritis, as well as swab for chlamydia and gon...all came back negative. It has now been three weeks since the incident and the spot by the urethra has become ultrasensitive and clothing rubbing against it feels like sandpaper. I have noticed no other lesions, bumps, or discharges...but I'm nevertheless scared to death. I've never had this problem before (the sensitivity and purple color) and I can't accept it's coincidence after having made the biggest mistake of my life. I've read that it's fairly easy to get Genital Herpes 1 from unprotected oral sex and I'm convinced that I've brought this home to ruin my life and marriage. I'm scared to death...do you think I have good reason?