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Been pregnant with this baby has really change my life from bad to worst, everyone think am stupid to like have a babe with another little kid in my hand  my boyfriend has abandoned me for another woman am just 25years no encouragement either from boyfriend, family or friends am so diverstiated
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Thank you ladies it's not really easy for me it has been trouble all the way my boyfriend has really faustrated me and make me to do things am not suppose to do or say to people. Everyone is so upset with me.



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I have had times when I thought that everything would have been so much easier if I'd not got pregnant. I am not with the father and although he says he will be there for my son when he is here, he hasn't been there for me all during my pregnancy.
My landlady doesn't want a baby in the flat so she issued me with an eviction notice.
I've got obstetric cholestesis so the last 2 months have been incredibly uncomfortable with constant itching everywhere and little to no sleep every night. And as well as a big baby I am also carrying a lot of fluid so I'm constantly in pain with my back and stomach because of the extra weight.
I will be honest I hate being pregnant and can't wait for it to be over.......

However, I know that once he is here, I am going to love my son with all of my heart, and everything I do for the rest of my life I will do for him and his happiness. I am terrified about giving birth, and being a single mum, and I still don't have a home for us because the flat I'm going to be moving into will not be ready before I have to leave my current place. But I'm confident that everything happens for a reason, and everything will turn out ok. As long as I have a healthy and happy son then I have the world in my hands.

I wish you every luck for the future, life is hard, but women were made to be strong xxx
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Nooo try not to think negative...if u catch urself thinking negatively, just stop and think about something that makes you happy...its no accident you have a baby on the way....its a miracle!  A true blessing! No matter what anybody thinks or says
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STOP IT NEVER BE NEGATIVE AND REGRET YOUR MIRACLE BECAUSE OF OTHERS OPINIONS....YOUR GOING TO LOVE YOUR BABY SO MUCH TRUST ME...THINGS WILL GET BETTER AND YOUR ATTITUDE WILL GET MORE POSITIVE...JUST BE STRONG BECAUSE THOSE WHO DOUBTED,JUDGED,OR ABANDONED YOU WILL BE THE FIRST ONES TO BE IN YOUR FACE, FAKE YES I KNOW BUT FORGIVE THEM....BE STRONG BECAUSE YOUR BABY IS GOING TO LOVE YOU WHEN OTHERS ABANDONED YOU ......REMEMBER YOUR BABY IS A BEAUTIFUL MIRACLE
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