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Body To Body Massage With Genital Rubbing
Hello everyone,
I recently had an experience that has left me concerned about potential HIV exposure. Two weeks ago, I went for a body-to-body massage where the masseuse was nude, and it lasted for about twenty minutes. She was sliding her body over mine, and our genital areas made contact during the massage.
I tried to avoid direct contact by letting her rub against my thigh, but I did feel some tingling sensations due to her shaving and also her vulva/lips...
Towards the end, she positioned herself in a way that I felt like I may have touched her wet vulva with my penis, and I immediately asked to stop.
I tested negative 2 weeks later for gonorhea/chlamydia but hiv not conclusive yet.
Do you think there is a risk of HIV transmission in this scenario? Would I have noticed if there had been penetration without a condom, considering I was trying to be cautious? Asked this question because i've never penetrated without a condom.
Last detail, i'm circumcised.
Any advice or insights would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you all, and I apologize if this is lengthy or if it's a common topic for discussion.
I recently had an experience that has left me concerned about potential HIV exposure. Two weeks ago, I went for a body-to-body massage where the masseuse was nude, and it lasted for about twenty minutes. She was sliding her body over mine, and our genital areas made contact during the massage.
I tried to avoid direct contact by letting her rub against my thigh, but I did feel some tingling sensations due to her shaving and also her vulva/lips...
Towards the end, she positioned herself in a way that I felt like I may have touched her wet vulva with my penis, and I immediately asked to stop.
I tested negative 2 weeks later for gonorhea/chlamydia but hiv not conclusive yet.
Do you think there is a risk of HIV transmission in this scenario? Would I have noticed if there had been penetration without a condom, considering I was trying to be cautious? Asked this question because i've never penetrated without a condom.
Last detail, i'm circumcised.
Any advice or insights would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you all, and I apologize if this is lengthy or if it's a common topic for discussion.
COMMUNITY LEADER
This is WAY too long, and I am not reading all of that.
The only risks for HIV in adults are:
1) Having unprotected anal or vaginal sex, or
2) sharing intravenous needles with IV drug users.
If you do not engage in any of the activities I mentioned above with someone HIV+ or whose HIV status is unknown to you, you will NEVER have to worry about getting HIV. There is no "what if" question that you could imagine about this event that would make it a risk for HIV.
There is NO WAY you would penetrate without knowing, but if you are concerned, you should just test to ease your mind.
The only risks for HIV in adults are:
1) Having unprotected anal or vaginal sex, or
2) sharing intravenous needles with IV drug users.
If you do not engage in any of the activities I mentioned above with someone HIV+ or whose HIV status is unknown to you, you will NEVER have to worry about getting HIV. There is no "what if" question that you could imagine about this event that would make it a risk for HIV.
There is NO WAY you would penetrate without knowing, but if you are concerned, you should just test to ease your mind.
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