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888444 tn?1241105995

Does this sound like ADD/ADHD?

I am not sure what's wrong with me, but I know something is. My memory has gotten worse. Quirker to anger over things - reacting strongly over things I know don't deserve such a strong reaction, able to remember/recall less. I am having a hard time "inputting" new information, focusing when someone is telling me something, and I can't "repeat" what someone just said as well as I used to. Also I've been told I'm indecisive yet I frequently buy/create things impulsively (Such as a ton of fabric for a sewing project I have since mentally abandoned).

I'm misspelling words often (typed for years correctly before), now begun using the wrong word (right instead of write, etc), when I speak and type I've begun to "jumble" my sentences out of order. (this whole thing took a long time to type with MANY mistakes - thank you spell check!) When I'm speaking I've mis-spoken a word, go back to say it right only to do it again but pronouncing it a different way (still wrong) and still get words "out of order". My mind also "drops" a sentence midway through in my head when I'm typing or talking frequently. Also I seem to be having a hard time inferring what people mean (ie the emotion or tone in their voice) so I'm having to ask things like "did you mean that sarcastically/truthfully/etc?" I've noticed that its happening to me with more frequency. Several times a week, to several times a day. If I get frustrated (often when trying to express a thought) I give up because I end up feeling I don't have the energy to explain anything - often I just feel emotional but can't describe which in particular. There have been plenty of times I'm staring at something for unknown periods of time, only to be asked "You look like you're thinking hard about something, what is it?" and...coming up blank for a reply. I forget what I'm doing in the middle of activities too, often wandering room to room without remembering what I was going there for.

Other things I think are important but may not be related : physical symptoms are fatigue, body aches, every other week getting some kind of cold, flu, etc. Shooting pains in my arms and legs that feel like needles being dragged through me, a throbbing/overwhelmed feeling that starts in my neck and overtakes my head till I feel like passing out and feel immobilized via dull throbbing pain, "anxiety attacks" in my chest - where I receive a sharp pain if I breathe in.

I used to see a therapist (Can no longer afford, can't even afford a doctor's visit nowadays) who thought some of these symptoms could be ADD related. I've noticed a big increase in frequency and most of the things described are newer symptoms cropping up frequently in the past few months. I used to be praised for my writing and language skills - now I trip up several times a conversation. I'm worried I'm losing myself!

Please - no cliche "You need professional help" - what kind of help - who to see, what job title, specialty, what clues can be drawn from this? I can't afford practically anything, but if I can scrape together enough it has to be spent wisely. I want to change and be more in control and "get better".
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My 6 year old daughter has ADD. She does not have any of the symptoms you have. Her doctor described ADD as not being able to focus on anything for any amount of time. If I was you I would talk to a neurologist. You may need to get an EEG or CAT scan, I think they would show anything that may be wrong. Sounds like there may be a blockage or misfiring in the brain. Good luck on what ever you do. I know it frustrating not being yourself.
888444 tn?1241105995
Ok if ADD is 'defined' by lack of focus - that's what many of my symptoms are. I may not be screaming running like kids do all over the place, but I do "daydream" OFTEN without actually having a dream/imagining something. The fact I'm losing interest/focus in my own sentences when they're leaving my mouth is disturbing. I worded it the way I did because it's not a conscious effort, I really can't seem to "get the energy" to finish -  aka focus.

I am either not able to focus (I stare off into space, wander around, or stare at the TV for hours only to "snap out of it" later wondering where I spent all that time. I also lose my place reading almost every other sentence, give up on projects, etc.)

Or I "hyper" focus, especially when I'm drawing, where the slightest interference is the equivalent to nails on a chalkboard and I snap at people to leave me alone. Nothing else matters, I've worked on art for HOURS ignoring my own need for food or bathroom.

Then there's the I can actually function time, which is getting less and less.

Thinking back, I don't know how I got through school considering I would read so far ahead of the class I'd wait a day for them to catch up, but then spend the rest of the class staring off into space. I still get that feeling but when I'm not focused I tend to be just calmly not paying attention to anything. Though I do wander on occasion and I guess that counts as being restless, sometimes I get frustrated with being bored and I fidget.

I had seen a therapist for years that suggested it could be ADD, though nothing more diagnostic was done. I think a neurologist would be the way to go. As for misfiring in the brain I don't doubt it, as that seems to be the case with my mother's mental instabilities.
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ADD is usually something that kids are diagnosed with so they can be given grade improving stimulants.  Since you seem to have "caught" your symptoms, and they are getting worse it is probably not ADD (a stimulant treated disorder).  

An Arnold-Chiari Malformation is more likely given your symptoms.  You really need to see a specialist to get it straightened out --doctors, even neurologists, sometimes only know about 10% of their field so you're pretty much screwed if you can't research, lol.  Who knows, maybe you're lucky and it will be ACM or something similar (and thus a meeting with a neurologist who specializes in ACM will be able to help figure things out).  ACM is treatable btw.  

189897 tn?1441130118
   Ok, let me add my 2 cents.  I really don't think its ADHD.  Something is dragging you down, and it is getting worse.  High stress or anxiety can explain a lot of the problems, but not all of them.  You have never mentioned if you have tried any medication for stress or anxiety.  It's also a  good chance its a physical problem.  The body aches and pains sounds like Lupus or several other things.  It is very possible that the overwhelming physical problems are starting to affect your mental well being.  I know that it would certainly drag me down.
   What to do?  Try copying all you have written and post it in several of the medical sections on this forum.  Spend the money if you have to - its cheap compared to the alternative.  I would also be tempted to do a complete blood workup/physical to rule out any problems that might show.    Although the mind can do a lot of nasty stuff to the body, I don't think a therapist is the way to go.  Although I must admit that if you are extremely stressed out, a lot of your symptoms would make sense.
  For the short term, my only suggestion (if you are not already doing it) is to get outside.  Take long jogs, or walks.  Put your favorite music on and walk for an hour. Do something different - go to a zoo, a musical, the movies, your local high school production.  Change your routine!
  Good Luck!!  Let us know whats happening.
189897 tn?1441130118
Here is an interesting link to what stress can do to memory.

Avatar universal
Oops, wiki doesn't articulate the symptoms very well there.  

"One of the most common symptoms... is a headache. The headache generally begins in the neck or base of the skull and may radiate through the back of the head." (your headache sounds like one of these kinds)

"Patients may also report tingling, burning, numbness, or pins and needles. Balance can be affected" (your shooting pain perhaps)

Cognatively... the symptoms vary wildly between patient.  

" lose the ability to find the right word or to properly form the right word" (this is very common of the condition)

Your mind "droping" sentences is a symptom that I notice in myself.  I believe it relates to short term memory problems.

Your daydreams I can relate to, and sometimes after I snap out of it I can't remember what I was thinking about.  I think that's because of the short term memory problems again, and that I was thinking about something but I just lose them.  


To investigate the matter with out having to spend tons on an MRI you can see if:
-Do any of your symptoms get worse depending on the possition of your head or your posture?
-Does a cool compress at the back of the head help?
-Does getting up and moving about for a short time alleviate any of the cognitive symptoms?
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