That did not sound dumb. To me changing thought patterns means staying away from my old addictive, destructive thoughts. If i was going out I would find that to be a good reason to use, if i was feeling down in the dumps that would be a good reason to use, i always rationalized a reason to use. By learning some tools i learned how to shift my thought patterns into something more positive and find reasons not to use. As Lesa said finding a hobby can do wonders. I just got back from the golf course, something i love and always been my passion, but during my days of drugs i could care less about that stuff, only dope. It felt so good to be out there and i feel high right now, lol. I said feel, not am, ha. I don't know if i explained this right, but my cravings and thoughts about using were so intense for awhile i knew i had to change my thought patterns when it came to drugs. I am an addict and accept there will never be a reason to use.
Oh Yes and Congratulations on over 40 days !!
I'm also glad you made it through her graduation and to be straight and being able to express true joy at the proposal is Wonderful.. Congrats on gaining a Son :) Dealing with craving and what to do was a problem for me.. thanks to burrpatch I picked up a hobby.. photography it takes me to a whole different place mentally and soon the craving is gone. after over 6mo. I do not crave as often but still active in my hobby :) lesa
This may sound dumb, but how do you change your thought patterns?
Glad you made it through, sounds like it was a special night:). For me cravings happened everyday that first month or so, but over time they became more gradual and less intense. I realized by limiting my triggers, I didnt' crave as much and i also learned how to not let them grow, otherwise i would be obsessing about using and it would be harder. For me the best thing i can do is talk about it, get support when a craving starts, if i hide it then i get in trouble. Staying busy and changing those thought patterns will help so much. Congrats on over 40 days, your doing great!