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Dove did it

I think I made it and the worst is over. Just took my last valium last night and still have stomach troubles. No aches or pains. Just a little tired and depressed. It's been about a week.

The other thing my boyfriend is at home suffering. There is not much I can do. He's talking of leaving and maybe it's for the best.

Dove
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LOL. That's great, cats are good too.

Vic
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I have 2 cats. That I love dearly. They watch TV with me too My oldest likes Deal or No Deal.

Dove
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Sorry for preaching and assuming you were just a young’n. Have you thought about replacing him with a Golden Retriever? Mine meets me at the door every day and is soooo happy to see me. She also likes to sit in my lap and watch TV.
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I'm 51 and kids aren't involved. I failed to mention another thing is that my boyfriend is a gambler.

Your right he is not a keeper. I just got use to having him around to watch TV and stuff with.

Thanks DAD

Dove
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You are doing a GREAT job...stay strong and everything will work out....

Keep posting...we're here for you!!!
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Is your boyfriend what you are looking for in a husband? Would you want him to be the Father of your 84 children?

If he can't find a way to "honestly" earn the money he needs to stay out of jail, will he ever be able to provide for you, and your kids? I believe that the most important job a Mom can do is stay at home and be there to take care of thier kids and it takes a good man to WORK as much as it takes to make that happen.

If I was your Father and you asked my advice, I would say it sure sounds like you could do much better. It doesn't sound like this guy is a winner or a keeper, just from a Dad's point of view.
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MyLoveDove I am here for you just as you've been there for me through all this mess! PM me if you want to talk more in depth or anything! {{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}
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It's awesome your where you are!!!!!!  The boyfriend thing, not so much.  I just wanted to give you kudos for making it, and support for whatever happens next.
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DO not get him money honey.AS I said this will play out maybe to your advantage.youdo not need this stress.Just stay strong it is not your problem or fault if he can not pay.I beleive in angels and think yours is working overtime HAHA
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Not to many people hang up on me because I sound so sweet. That's the truth.

The boyfriend has put pressure on this entire thing. What can I do for him?. He is on probation and says he will go back and serve his few months left if nothing happens and that means he wants money or is trying the trick to get money from me. I'm sorry I have no  money. His deadline for this is tomorrow.

Dove
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woohoooo I am proud of you ....... The stomach problems will clear them selves up . As for the boyfriend you know he cant live there and use ,so you are right his leave would probably be best ,make sure to take care of yourself first :)
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Well what a difference a week makes,you deserve a metal for working thru the detox.I think you are a very strong person and I am very happy for you.Now about the boyfriend maybe this will just play out without the drama you do not need any stress this week.PS I will not hang up on you today.   BE PROUD
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