thank you all for your words of wisdom. :)
You are concerned for your boyfriend. I am concerned for you. Why are you going out with a drug addict? There are lots of healthy men out there. You don't need to tie yourself to a sick one.
And don't waste your time trying to cure him. Mama is at his side.
You are smart to be suspicious. Us addicts lie, steal, and keep things hidden from loved ones when we want to use. The drug takes priority over everything else. Even if it's twice a month, it's not a healthy coping mechanism and it's a slippery slippery slope we've all been down. He needs to stop or you need to move on. I'm sorry you're going through this.
It's really going to be hard to help him if he doesn't think it's a problem
I wish you all the best. There is another forum called Living with an addict. You should check that out too.
Good luck.