I am a nurse. I am also an addict with 19 days of sobriety from extreme abuse of Norco for more than 5 years. If she is taking Phenergan for her stomach, that is an old addict's trick of taking Phenergan with a narcotic pain med to enhance the "high". I cannot personally imagine going thru detox and being "sleepy"! Miserable, thrashing around in the bed, praying for death as a sweet release, all of the above, but NOT dozing off! Most of us who do detox on our own can't stay far enough away from the bathroom to get cozy enough to fall asleep! Not for weeks. More importantly, until she is ready herself to go thru the screamin' pookies, restless leg sydrome, and endless insomnia, etc. It is doubtful she is all in on this gig. Just don't get caught enabling her.
What is the reason why you need to look for signs of use? I think you need to support your friend and instead of trying to catch her "using", maybe you can give her a window to crawl through so she can stop...
Once an addict, always an addict. This is very true. However I will say that it is the addicts choice to either use or not use. But once they choose to use, they cannot control the usage due the the nature of the disease. Nobody wants to be an addict, it just sneaks up on you. Once it does it is a lifetime battle, just like diabetes or any other disease. What your friend needs more than anything is your support and understanding, so bless you for reaching out for help. Trust me when I say your friend doesn't want to lie to you. She is embarrassed at her own inability to control herself and doesn't want to be judged.
Signs of abuse are different person to person depending on how much, how long and what they are using. Usually either hyperactivity or sleepiness. Pinpoint pupils, sweating, talkative or zoning out. If she is taking phenegran for her stomach that will make her sleepy. Most people get an energetic feel good feeling from opiates, so if she is mixing the two, that would explain her being tired. Either that or she is nodding off from coming off them. But some people it makes them sleepy.
Please be there for her. She needs you now more than ever! Let her know your there to support her, yes she may fall or she may make it but we still love them. It is a disease.
Well small pupils is a side affect to pain pill use so is falling asleep in the middle of a conversation...so it is possible for sure..there are rehab she can go to that don't cost a lot of money..maybe family can help her financially? Sounds like she is going to need an intervention...there are a few nurses on here I hope they see this they can probably give you more symptoms to look for although I am an addict I never took note of how people saw me when I was using. I wish you all the best with your friend and I will keep her in my prayers. Please keep me posted...