Yep, you guessed it homies, I let daughter and two grands referenced above come stay this aftn and the babies are staying overnight while she works - I know I should have said no and (omg I can't even type this without my 4 yr old grandson saying "mimi, mimi (that's me) mimi - you know what I did? Mimi, look, Mimi ... I can't believe I'm laughing at this - I may be hysterical - REALLY THOUGH .... even though my daughter is feeling bad with some unexplained pain in her side and a bad tooth (hey, Bamma) why can't I just say no???????? I know I have a right to detox in a semblance of peace, but it just feels SO SELFISH when I can be of help to her???????? I'm hopeless