strip joints and beer

[missyaftc]

my husband never came home one night because he choose beer for one and of course his addiction to the dance bar. I went with him to the strip joints when ever he wanted, shoot new years eve i was eating dinner there.
Recently I found him lieing and not making sence of alot. I started keeping my eyes open. A few weeks ago my husband said he was pretty sure he was going to be able to take some buisness over.... and get some boy whos been working hard and long off the team. team of three workers. small rock crushing yard. anyways. My husband really didnt want me being around the yard.(?) and when i went there, the last time...i told the guy who myhusband planned on firing. anyways my husband called me and screamed yelled and has never come home again. Few weeks ago from all this, I told him we needed to back off the bar........ his drinking, i always drove. but then again i was starting to feel insecure....
He never came home the night after he yelled at me........
*think pretty much he made his decition.. beer, dancers and gold digging. I gave him tons now im divorcing him......
anyone know of beer, and dancers addiction

[Ella789]

I think the strip-girls will use him up and throw him aside for another guy.   I am sorry for your situation,  I hope someone will come your way who will treat you better.

Ella

[missyaftc]

He had broken trust along time ago. Be it with this situation or any other. He was lieing and had me guessing. Why make this guy guess. ??? Talk from someone who lives on trust.
Yes and for disaster it sure was. It all hit a wall head on.

[avisg]

sounds think two different problems you broke his trust that is why he is so angry.the alcoholic separate he may or may not be an alcoholic and for the strip joints is where he chooses tog o.

[Di1978]

Sounds like a recipe for disaster.

[gizzy32]

I am not sure why you told him either, but that is besides the point. If he chose strippers and booze over you, then that says it all, right? I was drinking and doing a lot of coke a few years back while i was dating a stripper that moved in next door and that is a very dangerous lifestyle. It's fun for a bit, but that wears off and strippers to me are just not that attractive, it takes a special person to do that for a living, no offense to anyone. You did go with him, so you have to take some blame too. If he is spending any money on the girls, trust me they are laughing at him and will use him up as much as they can. That is their job and ive seen guys lose so much, it's sad. Although i never spent money at strip clubs, my ex did have a part in getting me addicted to coke, which cost me a lot, but I also take the blame for that. Start thinking about you ok. Good luck.

[grievingwidow]

I cannot figure out why you told this guy that your husband was planning on getting rid of him?  Why would you do that?  Your first loyalty should always be to your husband.  I cannot blame him for being upset.