I'm in the same boat but I'm supposedly "talented" when it comes to music. I feel frustrated though as I have trouble conveying emotions in my speech so I'm kind of screwed when it comes to singing which I feel is severely limiting.
You know neurotypicals feel the same way sometimes. My mom used to tell me that everybody has something they are good at. I never found what I'm good at. My brother was the genius. One of my sisters was great at music. The other sister wonderful with sports.
I like what Tom Lehrer once said about Mozart: "It is sobering to consider that when Mozart was my age he had already been dead for a year." Mozart died at the age of 35.