I am at a loss trying to find help for my son. We have been to multiple doctors and therapist. All agree he is delayed, but no reason why. I would appreciate your time in maybe an oppinion on where I go/do next to help him. He just turned 3 and has delayed speech. He says the syllables, but has a very difficult time in pronounceation. At times he seems to be fine alone, even ignoring us. But at times he asks for help with things he cannot do on his own. He has problems eating certain foods, mostly foods that do not contain bread. He has a history of GERD/Reflux. He will not carry back and forth conversation. The only thing that is meaningful in conversation is activities that are taking place at that time. He has meltdowns when he does not get his way. He is very interested in the computer and can play his games on his own. He avoids words he can not say by using gestures such as pointing to his mouth when he is hungry. He has spells of muscle flexing (entire body) while holding his breath and during these spells makes facial grimaces with eyes bulging at times. These happen mostly when over stimulated such as very excited, tired, or bored. He has not worn jeans since December and fights me when we try to put them on and begs for "more pants". He does not like stickers, or glue when it is on his hands, but does not seem to have trouble with other textures. He will not eat certain foods and regularly spits out food, however he eats tree bark, sticks, mulch, cardboard, paper, chalk. Please if anyone sees any simularities let me know what you did to seek help. I am at my witts end. We have had EEG that turned out normal and all other physicians seem to think he is fine, but daycare and the early intervention say he is delayed and he exhibits the "spells" frequently and at times is scary for me. I need direction please. Is this ADHD, Autism or just delay.....or something else?