My daughter is five and was diagnosed with PDD-NOS a little over four months ago. She has had an amazing amount of progress since diagnosis. I was very worried that when she went back to school that it would be like last year, hiding behind the bookcase at circle time, not playing with the other children, not being able to communicate well enough to be understood by others but that was not the case!! The very first day she asked for a classmate to color with her, sits in the mat at circle time, and she is speaking in small sentences!! Of course, the diagnosis made all the difference, I'm more aware of her needs and the school has adjusted her IEP to include the therapy that she needs (PT, OT, and doubled up on the ST). Sorry that I'm rambling, just so excited at progress made.
She has recently started to express fear, sometimes she's just being silly but other times she truly is afraid. She says she's scared so much that I don't know when to take her seriously which can be a real problem because it can turn into a meltdown quickly. Which gets to the point, everytime I take her to the eye doctor the meltdowns get worse and worse. What can I do to help her cope with having her eyes checked? How do I get her to understand that she needs new glasses because the old ones are scratched and bent?
She gets so attached to her stuff (for lack of better word) and her routine that it always gets ugly when it's time for a change. Examples of this would be; she refuses to drink out of anything but the same 4 sippy cups she has had since she was 8 months old, still ***** her left thumb, still carries favorite receiving blanket around constantly. Any suggestions as to how to get her to drink from regular cup and stop sucking thumb would be appreiciated, too.