I've already tried the lidocaine patches, and they do not work. Doing any type of physical therapy or exercise really is uncomfortable and I don't want to hurt myself anymore then I already am. I'm at the point in my life where I'm ready for babies, and I need this pain to go away ASAP.
Well - go to the website of Dr. Jerome Groopman who has some articles on this kind of surgery. It is called a laminectomy and should be a very last resortt. They key is to use a surgeon who has done a lot of them, in a facility that has done a lot of them. This makes for an uncomfortable question you must ask: "Doctor, how many of these procedures have you done in the last month, and year?" Ask for a 3T MRI and try physical therapy with another person before you agree to surgery. Try a transdermal lidocaine patch (no more than 12 hours a day) and what is called a TENS device. If these two options have not been discussed by your pain management consultant, find another pain manager.