Hey,
I saw my CPN recently and bipolar was mentioned as a diagnosis. At the moment I have been dx'd as Borderline Personality Disorder, but I complained because I felt I was diagnosed too young and that alot of the things they were using as explainations of it were just me being a 'struggling teenager' About 7/8 months ago my mum became very ill, to the point of almost dying, life support machines the lot, and everyone remarked on how well I was coping. [For someone who regularly self-harms and has attempted suicide multiple times] I was effeicent, organising my sisters whilst dad was with mum, keeping in contact with the schools/hospitals/whoever else.. I'll mention that I wont talk to people on the phone normally. I had disagreements with the family because I was being 'cold-hearted' because I did not cry even when we were told mum had 4 more hours to improve otherwise they were stopping the life-support. I couldn't sleep and I felt full of energy, I was having as between 0 and 3 hours sleep at night, I wasn't eating much and didn't notice it at all, I felt odd, I knew I wasn't happy yet I was full of energy and things, plus things were complicated because I didn't seem to be able to take in the seriousness of mum's illness.. I was mega social, talked to people I 'hate' and argued with my dad about 'not making sense with whatever I was talking about and that how could I even be thinking about things like that when mum was so ill' That lasted between 6-8 weeks and then I crashed. I had an ambulance called because my support workers thought I was dead. I was near catatonic apparently [if thats how you spell it] I was sleeping almost 22 hours a day. I was like that for a couple of weeks then I came out of it a bit although still 'low' I was sleeping between 16-18 hours a day, not eating, barely talking, wanting to see no-one, in fact wanting nothing to do with anyone really.. Including the catatonic bit lasted about 8 weeks.. I went up again, within a week, I went from sleeping about 16 hours to sleep at the most 4 hours a day, I was spending money recklessly, and still don't know what half of it was on but within 2 months I managed to spend nearly £2000.. I was unbelievably social and very sexual.. I was arranging to meet strangers and having sex with them, I contacted people I used to hang out with and had sex with them.. I'll just say due to past stuff I dont even like sex. But I felt in my element. It was amazing. I was amazing. I had these ideas and theories and according to my support workers I wasnt talking logically and I was talking too fast. I had bounds of energy despite still not sleeping or eating. I was going to tell the prime minister how to do his job, I knew how to sort out the economy, [I don't really recall how I was going to do that] I felt like I was this brilliant, intelligent person and how could anyone not see what I could see, everything felt great and I was going to do great things. I crashed again, and sleep between 16-18 hours a day now after 3 full days in bed. I want to hurt myself all the time and my mind plays 'clips' of different senarios of me killing myself in one way or another. I feel low, I have no energy and still no appetite. I'm upsetting my friends because I don't want to see them, I don't wanna do anything but sleep really. I'm not really sure what to do. Its something they've mentioned, but I have trust issues and I'm not sure how honest I'm able to be with my psych. Spesh as he's a man and it involves sexual stuff which shouldn't embarrass me, but does. Does this sound like bipolar? Any help, advice.. anything really, I just don't know what to do.