Thanks for the response. I get the depression part..but the manic is what is driving me a little over the edge with my hubby. I will check the forum out, but not sure it is the one I need. Again, thanks.
There is one for families of people with depression:
http://www.medhelp.org/forums/Depression-Support-For-Families-/show/1259
I know some people here could give some ideas for coping tips though and relationship therapy can be of help as well as support groups such as the NAMI family and friends support groups.