So, he works at a bar, which isn't the best place for him, but he seems comfortable there for a few reasons. He has these two friends that are also married to one another and how conveniently enough for them, they visit him there all the time because they are also both alcoholics! The real problem is that they fight in front of him all the time. I noticed whenever they do that, he just shuts down and its impossible to make him answer a text or talk to me. He won't even say good night. I don't know what to do when this happens. I leave him alone because thats all I can do...but then I get nervous bothering him the next day. And when I cant talk to him for a while it really upsets me. I worry because I know its not good for him to be around negativity, but they fight without any courtesy to him- not as a friend or their bartender!