I don't have a problem with my current psychiatrist he treated me with respect and was pretty attentive & listened to me on my first session with him. He didn't make me feel as if I was being talked down to. At the time I wasn't in what I have come to recognize as a manic phase, and for years have just written off my symptoms or tried to ignore them. Plus mania for me feels mostly good, so usually I don't feel the need to bring them up. But I know I do now, because of risky behavior that I do when I'm manic, and occasional bouts of severe anxiety & even borderline depression.
It was my fault for not telling my psych any of that, so no point in switching doctors since that's not an option for me now anyways, plus I liked my psychiatrist overall. All I told him was about how I feel anxious & panicky, but I am beginning to realize now that all my years of strange behaviors & mood swings may be due to a form of bipolar and not anxiety. So it was my fault for not opening up to him. But since I felt reasonably comfortable with him, I definately will the next session.
I have heard men seem to have more manic symptoms and women more depressive, but that seems way too simplistic & even sexist. Bipolar knows no boundaries! I suspect some of my uncles have it, and even my mom.
I feel better today, coming off of what has been about 2-3 weeks of near constant mania, hypersexual, racing thoughts, angry outbursts, aggressive behavior, & intense thinking in my head to the point of feeling like my brain would burst. I also had a couple of bouts of severe paranoia which disturb me, because that is a fairly new symptom for me. But today I woke up, and I feel calmer, stable, more myself. I guess mania can make one feel exhausted because I feel physically and mentally drained!
I am fortunate to even have a psychiatrist, my gp doctor was nice enough to refer me to him, and he saw me without delay. I will open up to him next session entirely and tell him the whole truth, and leave nothing out. I have written some notes down for myself to show or tell him so I can give him a good picture next time.
Very good I liked your ideas. Yep get another Psychiatrist! As for the fear of being "Judged", don't concern yourself with that. Trust. You n your doc have a professional relationship and you need to feel safe. I agree that a new doc would be better.
Thanks so much for the nice responses. I will look some more online (if I can settle down enough to). I will be seeing my psych soon but if feeling still unstable tomorrow I will call & ask to get in sooner. I have had these symptoms for years. I first thought I had anxiety/panic disorder or even ADD, but I get these days on end where most of the day I feel VERY on edge, irritable, "high", & wired. Like the past week or two. It's not 24/7, but I feel wired & amped up for like 90% of the day. And I am thinking about sex constantly & wanting to hook up with random people (why I don't know but I have done this for years and had hundreds of sex partners).
I don't think I am or have been psychotic, although I do feel people are staring at me & judging me very often & even when driving sometimes I feel I am being followed I know this is not normal. I noticed when I took Trazodone once for sleep, I felt good but it made me even more manic than usual.
I have never had major depressive episodes in that I don't cry or lay in bed for days because I feel depressed. It seems that usually I am either manic, paranoid, or somewhat stable. But I do have a LOT of avoidance & self-imposed isolation so maybe that is considered a form of depression. Up to now, I always assumed it was anxiety-related. I will tell my psych everything the next time.
These manic feelings scare me though. Today marks the 10th day or so I have felt manic. It's not 24/7, every minute, but it's the majority of the time. It's like my brain feels it's going to explode.
I called the clinic today and the they said the therapist could fit me in soon which is comforting.
Thanks again for all the responses. Guess I'll keep taking my paxil until told not to. Xanax is helping a bit at night to calm me down.
Anonymous88 gives you excellent advice. I agree with everything she has said. You were very thorough in your description. I would definitely print this out for your dr to read. He will get the full picture without anything being left out. You need the correct diagnosis in order to get the correct medication.
I don't have time to do a full runthrough, but here are a few of my thoughts:
First off, you always have to be honest with your doctor. They can't treat you properly if you aren't, and the treatment they give you based on incomplete or inaccurate info can even be harmful. And your information you tell your doctor is by law strictly confidential in the US (look up HIPAA) and in most countries. There are sometimes exceptions if they think you're an immediate harm to yourself or others, or in cases of abuse (like doctors being mandated to report suspected child abuse), but 99.999999% of the time, your privacy is protected. If your mother came in and asked what you'd said about her, they'd have to have your permission in writing to tell her.
Second off, your symptoms do sound very suspiciously like bipolar, although you seem to only have manic symptoms. There's a diagnostic checklist for mania and hypomania, and I suspect you would fit enough items to qualify, although I can't say for sure over the internet. If it's bipolar I, you only need to have had a full blown manic or mixed episode, no depression required. Bipolar II requires a hypomanic episode and a full depressive episode. There's also a "not otherwise specified" category (NOS) if a clinician thinks you are bipolar but you don't fit in any of the designated categories. I suggest looking at the psycheducation.org website to learn more about the different flavors of bipolar and different presentations. Psychiatrists or psychologists can diagnose bipolar, and it can take one session or many sessions depending on how the person presents and what kind of history they give (BP II gets missed a lot because people only come in when they're in a depressive phase, and they forget to mention hypomanic symptoms they've had). With my current psychiatrist, I went in because I was massively depressed, but had read up on BP and told her I thought I might have it, and she asked why I thought that, I told her, and she agreed. The anxiety diagnosis took several months, since I didn't realize how much of a problem I had, having lived with it all my life.
With that being said, I would see another psychiatrist if possible, because his comment about "you're not out manically having sex with tons of people so I don't think your bipolar" says to me that he knows very little about bipolar, since hypersexuality is not a necessary symptom. It's classic, but there are plenty of bipolar people out there who never get hypersexual. If changing docs isn't an option, come clean now about the hypersexuality, and make sure to mention the spending sprees as well.
Coming back to the issue of treating you for the right thing, antidepressants (SSRIs) can make bipolar WORSE, especially if you're not on a mood stabilizer. DON'T stop taking your meds without permission, but you need to call him ASAP and tell him what's up, especially since you're feeling worse. Call up the office and ask them to put you in if someone cancels so you can see him sooner in person if possible. If you're too embarrassed to talk about it, write a letter. Heck, print out this post and bring it on in.
I have to go, but feel free to message me or post here and I'll probably get back to you within a day or so (I'm quite busy nowadays, but some things are important).