My partner has diagnosed bi polar and I have stuck by him for the past 8 years or so. He has ignored me, screamed at me, lied to me and now cheated on me. He tends to deflect any challenges back at me and wont be held responsible for any of his actions, rather blaming me (ie saying that I am the one who has lied, ignored, cheated etc). What on earth should I do? He is receiving treatment, I have offered for us to go to counselling together, but he just continues to lie and I feel I am on a stress roller coaster, not knowing what he will throw at me next? Any advice?